Comments on: Convention of those wounded in love http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/ updated on Monday, Wednesday, Friday Tue, 14 Feb 2012 14:58:30 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jessica http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-616256 Jessica Thu, 09 Dec 2010 03:37:01 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-616256 "Love is always close, always possible and always looking for me with hope, just as I look for it with hope." Thank you Kate. I needed to read that, and be reminded. “Love is always close, always possible and always looking for me with hope, just as I look for it with hope.”

Thank you Kate. I needed to read that, and be reminded.

]]> By: Hedia Lina http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-552991 Hedia Lina Sat, 17 Apr 2010 20:21:09 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-552991 Even I didn´t know that I was capable of loving, but now I know and I am thankful. Like a few say " What doesn´t kill you, makes you stronger" I suppose it is about standing up once again, of knowing that faith will get us to where we are meant to be, to know that we have our family and God to fall back on. Thank you all for your posts, God bless Even I didn´t know that I was capable of loving, but now I know and I am thankful. Like a few say ” What doesn´t kill you, makes you stronger” I suppose it is about standing up once again, of knowing that faith will get us to where we are meant to be, to know that we have our family and God to fall back on. Thank you all for your posts, God bless

]]> By: Melissa http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-552499 Melissa Wed, 14 Apr 2010 11:49:40 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-552499 I did not realize how much I was capable of loving and forgiving someone until after that certain someone broke my heart. I learned to be patient — to understand that some of the answers that I needed would take time. I learned to be strong — I had to go on and live even though all I wanted to do was sleep so that I wouldn't have to face waking up and realizing that things are still the same. I learned to have faith — faith in God and His love and plans for me. Most of all though, I learned that I would be fine (albeit after a certain period), that I'll be okay although a little bruised. I learned to appreciate the ordeal for what it was — a tool to help you learn who you are, to help you realize that your heart can still love even after it broke into a million pieces. I did not realize how much I was capable of loving and forgiving someone until after that certain someone broke my heart. I learned to be patient — to understand that some of the answers that I needed would take time. I learned to be strong — I had to go on and live even though all I wanted to do was sleep so that I wouldn’t have to face waking up and realizing that things are still the same. I learned to have faith — faith in God and His love and plans for me.

Most of all though, I learned that I would be fine (albeit after a certain period), that I’ll be okay although a little bruised. I learned to appreciate the ordeal for what it was — a tool to help you learn who you are, to help you realize that your heart can still love even after it broke into a million pieces.

]]> By: Mel http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-550104 Mel Tue, 23 Mar 2010 09:52:52 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-550104 Dear Zy, When i saw your post i got all teared up because the exact same situation happened to me recently. I am hurt and i wish that instead of him being silent and being ignorant he would explain with words as to why he is not interested anymore. His silence is hurting me more than his words would do, cause i don't know to wait or to forget....but i came to the realization that there is a reason behind everything, you and i may be very hurt at the moment but I'll assure you that later on you will know that he not being part of your life is for your best, God always wants the best for us, if he doesn't give you the person you desire it's because someone better is out there for you...believe in this! let him go, if he really wants to be with you he will come back, but love/respect yourself and know your worth, sometimes in the end when they do come back...it may be too late! Remember, "Everything has been written by the same hand"-(The Alchemist)....so leave it to God, he will only let the best to happen to you, you may not know it at the time but you'll realize this later. Dear Zy,

When i saw your post i got all teared up because the exact same situation happened to me recently. I am hurt and i wish that instead of him being silent and being ignorant he would explain with words as to why he is not interested anymore. His silence is hurting me more than his words would do, cause i don’t know to wait or to forget….but i came to the realization that there is a reason behind everything, you and i may be very hurt at the moment but I’ll assure you that later on you will know that he not being part of your life is for your best, God always wants the best for us, if he doesn’t give you the person you desire it’s because someone better is out there for you…believe in this!
let him go, if he really wants to be with you he will come back, but love/respect yourself and know your worth, sometimes in the end when they do come back…it may be too late!
Remember, “Everything has been written by the same hand”-(The Alchemist)….so leave it to God, he will only let the best to happen to you, you may not know it at the time but you’ll realize this later.

]]> By: Kate http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-549582 Kate Wed, 17 Mar 2010 05:07:52 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-549582 Funny that I should re-read this particular passage tonight... some how I find guidance in your words Paulo, and this community, when I need it. It is nice to be reminded that I am never far from the light, even when the darkness feels heavy. Love is always close, always possible and always looking for me with hope, just as I look for it with hope. We are all worthy, and everything will work out for the best. Funny that I should re-read this particular passage tonight… some how I find guidance in your words Paulo, and this community, when I need it. It is nice to be reminded that I am never far from the light, even when the darkness feels heavy. Love is always close, always possible and always looking for me with hope, just as I look for it with hope. We are all worthy, and everything will work out for the best.

]]> By: marie-christine http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-547105 marie-christine Fri, 26 Feb 2010 21:02:46 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-547105 "Love is the most beautiful music when we pull the string of the heart" Beautiful.Thank you "sognicolorati" “Love is the most beautiful music when we pull the string of the heart” Beautiful.Thank you “sognicolorati”

]]> By: marie-christine http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-547102 marie-christine Fri, 26 Feb 2010 20:58:01 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-547102 si, tu e "sognicolorati"me piacce. che bella ! si, tu e “sognicolorati”me piacce. che bella !

]]> By: fullofsmiles http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-547091 fullofsmiles Fri, 26 Feb 2010 20:01:41 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-547091 Zen, I feel you, and for someone to bring herself to say that to you, then just do as she says, live your own life, without her, she really means it. All those other things are just excuses from the truth, though the truth may hurt and hard to accept, its still the truth. You must go on if you want any happiness in your life, and if she is the right one for you, no worries, she will be at the end waiting for your return, but if not, then she's not it, you guys are just not each other's cup of tea, and it is time for you to try other tea to see which resignates with you more. Its painful, I understand, but the clock continues to tick whether you like it or not..so let it tick with your passion in it.. Zen,

I feel you, and for someone to bring herself to say that to you, then just do as she says, live your own life, without her, she really means it. All those other things are just excuses from the truth, though the truth may hurt and hard to accept, its still the truth. You must go on if you want any happiness in your life, and if she is the right one for you, no worries, she will be at the end waiting for your return, but if not, then she’s not it, you guys are just not each other’s cup of tea, and it is time for you to try other tea to see which resignates with you more. Its painful, I understand, but the clock continues to tick whether you like it or not..so let it tick with your passion in it..

]]> By: fullofsmiles http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-547089 fullofsmiles Fri, 26 Feb 2010 19:51:33 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-547089 Zy, I feel you, I feel your pain. though we all want closure, and want to know the truth, Its best sometimes to not know than to know the truth, that can leave you with an emotional scare. You can be even more hurt by knowing the "why" than to not know. I know it bothers you, but if someone can do that to you, it means they don't care and are not worthy of the time you give them. Let go, do not wait, if he's the right one, you will be together no matter what, but if not, no matter how long you wait, or try, it won't happen. Its like putting a square peg into a circular hole, it just won't fit no matter how hard you try. I went through similar, after a year and a half, someone I love so deeply, and thought that things were going great, one day, just out of no where decides he wants to be with someone else, and that that someone else is his future, that I was just one of his love, but not the end all be all, that I was a moment of love to him. It was so painful, still is to think that there is something wrong with yourself, that you are not good enough, not perfect enough. All those thoughts ran in my mind, but in the end, i realized it had nothing to do with me, and that it was just something internal on his end, and or, I'm just not the right cup of tea for him, and God made certain that we go our separate ways to be free to meet the right one. Its okay to not know, it may save you from a bigger heart ache.. Keep your heart open, free, and the right one, will not give you any reason to question, or feel uncomfortable, or leave you hanging there. Remember you are the prize, you are special, and you are rare, believe that in yourself, and the others will feel the same way about you... Zy,

I feel you, I feel your pain. though we all want closure, and want to know the truth, Its best sometimes to not know than to know the truth, that can leave you with an emotional scare. You can be even more hurt by knowing the “why” than to not know. I know it bothers you, but if someone can do that to you, it means they don’t care and are not worthy of the time you give them. Let go, do not wait, if he’s the right one, you will be together no matter what, but if not, no matter how long you wait, or try, it won’t happen. Its like putting a square peg into a circular hole, it just won’t fit no matter how hard you try. I went through similar, after a year and a half, someone I love so deeply, and thought that things were going great, one day, just out of no where decides he wants to be with someone else, and that that someone else is his future, that I was just one of his love, but not the end all be all, that I was a moment of love to him. It was so painful, still is to think that there is something wrong with yourself, that you are not good enough, not perfect enough. All those thoughts ran in my mind, but in the end, i realized it had nothing to do with me, and that it was just something internal on his end, and or, I’m just not the right cup of tea for him, and God made certain that we go our separate ways to be free to meet the right one. Its okay to not know, it may save you from a bigger heart ache.. Keep your heart open, free, and the right one, will not give you any reason to question, or feel uncomfortable, or leave you hanging there. Remember you are the prize, you are special, and you are rare, believe that in yourself, and the others will feel the same way about you…

]]> By: Rahul Chandra http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-546956 Rahul Chandra Fri, 26 Feb 2010 05:13:15 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-546956 well said... if you mess up with nature rule then you will make your life more complicated...think that you are only allowed to love .. not expect anyone to love you... well said… if you mess up with nature rule then you will make your life more complicated…think that you are only allowed to love .. not expect anyone to love you…

]]> By: Raimondo http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-545869 Raimondo Fri, 19 Feb 2010 20:24:59 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-545869 Dear Paulo I try to translate this convention into german. Would you publish it in your blog or may I do this in my one? Thanks and Greetings from Germany! Raimondo www.free-blog.in/LongForgottenSon Dear Paulo

I try to translate this convention into german.

Would you publish it in your blog or may I do this in my one?

Thanks and Greetings from Germany!

Raimondo

http://www.free-blog.in/LongForgottenSon

]]> By: lovelovelove http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-545859 lovelovelove Fri, 19 Feb 2010 18:31:26 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-545859 I wouls disagree that women are masters if excuses. Those who are blind and ignorant are masters of excuses. The person who loved me too uses religion and culture as an excuse, among other things that don't even make sense. We're all the same, bleed the same color, cry the same, feel, hear, speak, and love the same. The thing I am slowly learning And understanding is that not a single soul who loves another, like truly and sincerely, would leave you for culture or like me for religion. It's all easier said then done, I can give everyone else sound advice and understand it, but I don't understand how one changes such a strong emotion (that love) into indifference. And yes, I suppose every situation is different. we come alone, and die alone, everything inbetween are lessons. They always sy move on, well even if you don't want to really, you always are. I wish you peace and calmness and lots and lots of courage. Eli I wouls disagree that women are masters if excuses. Those who are blind and ignorant are masters of excuses. The person who loved me too uses religion and culture as an excuse, among other things that don’t even make sense. We’re all the same, bleed the same color, cry the same, feel, hear, speak, and love the same. The thing I am slowly learning And understanding is that not a single soul who loves another, like truly and sincerely, would leave you for culture or like me for religion. It’s all easier said then done, I can give everyone else sound advice and understand it, but I don’t understand how one changes such a strong emotion (that love) into indifference. And yes, I suppose every situation is different. we come alone, and die alone, everything inbetween are lessons. They always sy move on, well even if you don’t want to really, you always are.
I wish you peace and calmness and lots and lots of courage.

Eli

]]> By: Jessica http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-545308 Jessica Tue, 16 Feb 2010 21:33:39 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-545308 Love hurts, but sometimes it's a good thing because it makes you feel alive... Love hurts, but sometimes it’s a good thing because it makes you feel alive…

]]> By: ugz http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-543025 ugz Fri, 05 Feb 2010 02:07:39 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-543025 Dear Zy, I understand your pain so well! My lover left me just over a week ago. He disappeared, removed me from his facebook friends didnt answer to any of my msg or call. He didnt explain me why. A week before he left me I'd left him first,(because he couldn't decide, did he want to be with me or not) but then he got me back with his the most nicest words i've ever heard from him, his nice and loving behavior. He sweared that he likes me and wants to be with me. It was hard, but just when I believed in his words, believed in me, that i can truly start to love him even more than before - he left me! I wanted to die. I met him later, but he still didnt explain, why he'd done to me. Moreover after last night out he called me a whore, just because i was trying to forget him and i was dancing with others. How come love for me changed into such loathing for me?! I try my best to forget him and live on with my life. And I wish You All Wounded in Love, to be strong, very strong!!! What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger! xxx Dear Zy,

I understand your pain so well! My lover left me just over a week ago. He disappeared, removed me from his facebook friends didnt answer to any of my msg or call. He didnt explain me why. A week before he left me I’d left him first,(because he couldn’t decide, did he want to be with me or not) but then he got me back with his the most nicest words i’ve ever heard from him, his nice and loving behavior. He sweared that he likes me and wants to be with me. It was hard, but just when I believed in his words, believed in me, that i can truly start to love him even more than before – he left me! I wanted to die.
I met him later, but he still didnt explain, why he’d done to me. Moreover after last night out he called me a whore, just because i was trying to forget him and i was dancing with others. How come love for me changed into such loathing for me?!
I try my best to forget him and live on with my life.
And I wish You All Wounded in Love, to be strong, very strong!!! What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger!
xxx

]]> By: Iles http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-542506 Iles Tue, 02 Feb 2010 10:50:06 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-542506 che bello!! che bello!!

]]> By: Angelheart http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-541977 Angelheart Sat, 30 Jan 2010 08:16:12 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-541977 hey, I can understand ur pain, but its better to let go.... Cry if u want, do everything, but u can never find out the truth if nature doesnt want u to. Live on with ur life, dont be too obsessed with him..... leave it to time and to God, surely, u'l get the result... hey,

I can understand ur pain, but its better to let go…. Cry if u want, do everything, but u can never find out the truth if nature doesnt want u to. Live on with ur life, dont be too obsessed with him….. leave it to time and to God, surely, u’l get the result…

]]> By: Zy http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-540729 Zy Sat, 23 Jan 2010 11:34:45 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-540729 i am deeply wounded.. my lover just disappeared without trace.. dunno wot happened.. both his numbers are ringing but he is not pickin up... no mails.. no text.. no calls.. been 2 weeks.. am goin crazy... dunno if i should wait for him... it hurst when theres no closure.. i am deeply wounded.. my lover just disappeared without trace.. dunno wot happened.. both his numbers are ringing but he is not pickin up… no mails.. no text.. no calls.. been 2 weeks.. am goin crazy… dunno if i should wait for him… it hurst when theres no closure..

]]> By: constee http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-539803 constee Tue, 19 Jan 2010 17:42:14 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-539803 Very well said. I have just been deeply wounded and after reading this blog and your comment, I felt way better. Indeed, I am able to unleash the strength I never knew resided in me. The pain was beyond description. And reading wise words such as yours has brought back hope and happiness. Keep them coming. :) Very well said. I have just been deeply wounded and after reading this blog and your comment, I felt way better. Indeed, I am able to unleash the strength I never knew resided in me. The pain was beyond description. And reading wise words such as yours has brought back hope and happiness. Keep them coming. :)

]]> By: Deepu Bhat http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-538715 Deepu Bhat Thu, 14 Jan 2010 13:29:08 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-538715 HEY TANMEET, WELL SAID BUT SOMETIMES WHEN YOU LOVE THE WRONG PERSON WHO LOVES ONLY MATERIALITY THEN YOU FEEL A PAIN OF WASTING YOUR LOVE ON SOMEONE WHO WAS NOT MAYBE WORTH IT HEY TANMEET, WELL SAID
BUT SOMETIMES WHEN YOU LOVE THE WRONG PERSON WHO LOVES ONLY MATERIALITY THEN YOU FEEL A PAIN OF WASTING YOUR LOVE ON SOMEONE WHO WAS NOT MAYBE WORTH IT

]]> By: Tanmeet Kaur Sahiwal http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-538523 Tanmeet Kaur Sahiwal Wed, 13 Jan 2010 15:14:41 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-538523 I just want to say that anybody who's ever been in love can never lose. Love only gives, since it is a part of God's manifestations. There is always more and more love. And after a heartbreak, one explores certain strength which you never know resided in you. And most importantly, it opens the door for even greater love in future... :) I just want to say that anybody who’s ever been in love can never lose. Love only gives, since it is a part of God’s manifestations. There is always more and more love. And after a heartbreak, one explores certain strength which you never know resided in you. And most importantly, it opens the door for even greater love in future… :)

]]> By: Jesse http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-538126 Jesse Mon, 11 Jan 2010 20:19:20 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-538126 I sympathize. I might have written your exact words. So, in light and love, I ask: If you forgive others, do you also forgive yourself? You feel so imperfect, can you accept this and move through it? Do you expect apologies from others because you expect them from yourself? A book I find very helpful is "Love Without Conditions". I sympathize. I might have written your exact words. So, in light and love, I ask: If you forgive others, do you also forgive yourself? You feel so imperfect, can you accept this and move through it? Do you expect apologies from others because you expect them from yourself? A book I find very helpful is “Love Without Conditions”.

]]> By: Shah http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-538101 Shah Mon, 11 Jan 2010 18:46:00 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-538101 I wish I would of read this exactly one month ago. Anyways, I'm cleaning my own wounds now. And although I was cut deep, i'm glad I went through it, it made me feel alive again. I wish I would of read this exactly one month ago. Anyways, I’m cleaning my own wounds now. And although I was cut deep, i’m glad I went through it, it made me feel alive again.

]]> By: drsaphire http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-536557 drsaphire Mon, 04 Jan 2010 18:54:46 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-536557 I really liked this short Act. I recommended it to one good friend of mine, who quite needs such thoughts about lost love lately. Thanks I really liked this short Act.
I recommended it to one good friend of mine, who quite needs such thoughts about lost love lately.

Thanks

]]> By: Lili http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-2/#comment-535791 Lili Thu, 31 Dec 2009 09:38:57 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-535791 Thank you for these wise words. I have recently been severely wounded, but reading this article gives a new perspective (one that I actually have somewhere deep inside but sometimes find it difficult to remember...) and makes it easier to go on. Thank you for these wise words. I have recently been severely wounded, but reading this article gives a new perspective (one that I actually have somewhere deep inside but sometimes find it difficult to remember…) and makes it easier to go on.

]]> By: alisar http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-534797 alisar Wed, 23 Dec 2009 21:20:43 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-534797 first i want to say that injury from love is caused a trauma that could be lasting for years sometimes.many reason could affect the reaction of the injured person but i think when it is unexpected ,it is more painful.and the experience has a role in this.females are more sensitive to the shock .no one could feel wwith the bitter of bleeding love except the one who tasting it.accept the shock and put a new dream as mr paulo said and go forwards to acheive your goal.leave the revenge for the lord ..and challenge your pain by smiling ........... have a merry christmass first i want to say that injury from love is caused a trauma that could be lasting for years sometimes.many reason could affect the reaction of the injured person but i think when it is unexpected ,it is more painful.and the experience has a role in this.females are more sensitive to the shock .no one could feel wwith the bitter of bleeding love except the one who tasting it.accept the shock and put a new dream as mr paulo said and go forwards to acheive your goal.leave the revenge for the lord ..and challenge your pain by smiling ………..
have a merry christmass

]]> By: MARIA http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-534791 MARIA Wed, 23 Dec 2009 21:01:44 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-534791 don't say women are masters of excuses... any gender is... but i agree with the girl... as for me a man just left because of this so called CULTURE AND FAMILY reason... to some, culture is a big thing...coz it involves the family and your beliefs... so we just have to understand... no matter how painful it is... just go on with life and be happy... learn from the experience and who knows the right person is waiting in the next corner... 9 don’t say women are masters of excuses… any gender is…
but i agree with the girl… as for me a man just left because of this so called CULTURE AND FAMILY reason…
to some, culture is a big thing…coz it involves the family and your beliefs… so we just have to understand… no matter how painful it is… just go on with life and be happy… learn from the experience and who knows the right person is waiting in the next corner… 9

]]> By: mel de salvo http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-534697 mel de salvo Wed, 23 Dec 2009 10:02:49 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-534697 im am sorry to be frankly honest.. but women are masters of excuses she seems like she loves you but not in the old ways she did so she is too nice to tell u straight up which is not fair for u she dosnt want u nor dosnt want anyone else to have you....honeslty it hurts u must accept and move on ur better then that... cultures..do not matter thats an excuse we all all human we all breath the same air and have the ability to think and see things in some similar shade of color..listen to her last words.. life is too short and there is too many ppl out there i know that sounds a bit cliche but maybe get a new hobby go our see new places thats dosnt always have to mean party go crazy ! no no no enjoy ur life breath in new experiences in a different light dream.explore .discover... idk what made me reply to this but i did.. i am a female i gave u my opinian i hope u take some of it into consideration smile!! at the end of the day ..whats a better way to end it? :) ciao - M. DE SALVO im am sorry to be frankly honest.. but women are masters of excuses she seems like she loves you but not in the old ways she did so she is too nice to tell u straight up which is not fair for u she dosnt want u nor dosnt want anyone else to have you….honeslty it hurts u must accept and move on ur better then that… cultures..do not matter thats an excuse we all all human we all breath the same air and have the ability to think and see things in some similar shade of color..listen to her last words.. life is too short and there is too many ppl out there i know that sounds a bit cliche but maybe get a new hobby go our see new places thats dosnt always have to mean party go crazy ! no no no enjoy ur life breath in new experiences in a different light dream.explore .discover… idk what made me reply to this but i did.. i am a female i gave u my opinian i hope u take some of it into consideration smile!! at the end of the day ..whats a better way to end it? :) ciao

- M. DE SALVO

]]> By: Zen Alexie Jumaoas http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-534095 Zen Alexie Jumaoas Mon, 21 Dec 2009 05:25:03 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-534095 First she told me that she can't see our future any more then she said that she can't love as she'd love me before then she said that she is tired fighting with her family. Obviously it's her family who would want me because I'm a foreigner and we have different cultures.That's according to her family. Can you add any decree on this? p.s. her last words to me was to live my life without her. First she told me that she can’t see our future any more then she said that she can’t love as she’d love me before then she said that she is tired fighting with her family. Obviously it’s her family who would want me because I’m a foreigner and we have different cultures.That’s according to her family.
Can you add any decree on this?

p.s.
her last words to me was to live my life without her.

]]> By: sognicolorati http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-532164 sognicolorati Sat, 12 Dec 2009 12:56:24 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-532164 l'amore e' la musica piu bella quando tira le corde del cuore l’amore e’ la musica piu bella quando tira le corde del cuore

]]> By: Maryon http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/12/05/convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/comment-page-1/#comment-532057 Maryon Fri, 11 Dec 2009 18:59:04 +0000 http://paulocoelhoblog.com/warrioroflight/05.12.2007/issue-n%c2%b0161-convention-of-those-wounded-in-love/#comment-532057 Dear Paulo, I think that I deserve love, but have been severely wounded at war. Love Maryon Dear Paulo,
I think that I deserve love, but have been severely wounded at war.
Love
Maryon

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