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Edition no 166 : The accommodating point
Edição no 166 : O ponto acomodador
Edición no 166 : El punto acomodador
Édition no 166 : Le point d’accommodation
Edizione no 166 : Il punto di accomodamento
Dear Paolo!
Everyone wants the best for himself. Why don´t ask God to help looking for a thrue love and follow destiny´s signs?
Love /Viola
Ps. Personally I didn´t, so I´m rather unhappy in my marridge now.
Dear Clem,
What Paulo meant by saying that he changed “wives” and that his wife changed “husbands” was not that they divorced and married other people more times, but the fact that both Paulo and his wife evolved, had different stages in their lives as being “under construction” their personalities, while they remained married.
We have the core, the same essence all the time, but still we change, we are under a continuous transformation, no matter that we are sometimes aware or not, changes still happen… :-)
This is the main idea of the text and it is not beautiful but also true indeed! We change our attitudes, our mentalities, our interior and exterior aspect all the time, and this is the charm of transformations, that we become better, we grow! :-)
You are also right in your comment and congratulations for being married to the same person for 33 years! Good for you! I hope that you will be in love forever and enjoy the transformations in your lives!
God represents dynamism, motion; nothing should stagnate, but transform for the better! :o)
Many hugs and all my appreciation,
Carmen Larisa
Paulo,
I have to disagree with part of your “Accommodating Point.” While it’s true we go through many changes and that stagnation is just that, stagnant, for many people, a lifetime relationship enables growth in many ways.
I’ve been married to the same woman for 33 years and our love and caring has only grown. And neither of us has changed husband or wife during these years. Having stability in our relationship has given stability to the rest of our lives. Of course, we both follow the same spiritual path, not a Christian one, and that also lends stability to our relationship and our lives.
Changing partners time after time may just be a way of allowing whim to rule our lives. Possibly growth may come from this, but it may also just be a way of avoiding growth, both personally and within the relationship itself.
Following ones’ desires for a different partner, while it may be fulfilling in some ways, seems to be more an attempt to always be “in Love” and chasing after the new relationship rather than growing in the marriage itself.
“The eagle mates for life.”
I appreciate much of what you share, but not this time.
Regards,
Clem Wilkes
In the long run, nothing and no-one can restrain the energy within.
It is yours to borrow.
You have been given this unique opportunity of experiencing it.
Enjoy it.
Let it flow.
Dear Paolo!
Everyone wants the best for himself. Why don´t ask God to help looking for a thrue love and follow destiny´s signs?
Love /Viola
Ps. Personally I didn´t, so I´m rather unhappy in my marridge now.
such a wonderful paragraph this last one..It shows how much you love your wife and how much she loves you back.. You both love whatever form the other person may take through these years,as he/she changes..Just wonderful…Not many people accept that..They don’t accept change..they want the other person to be exactly as the one when they met him/her..
Yes, there is always something further..always something more..All we have to do is reach out..And not be afraid to surpass this accomodating point..We should not compromise with this situation..even after achieving a dream, there is always another great dream… :) living everyday, more and more..
Love to all of you
Annie
Standstill means death, development means life.
But also remember Ikarus.
Dear Paulo,
………
Some people have enough
even if they don’t,
and some still look for more
having so much in their world.
……
I cannot understand,
I cannot wait to see,
where is the end of
thoughts,
of ….everything.
If the soul is hungry for more, then there never will be a limit.
love
Agnieszka