According to your experiences, twenty per cent of customers go to a brothel to talk. Do you understand this?
As a young man I often traveled forty-eight hours with the bus from Rio de Janeiro to Buenos Aires to see my idol Jorge Luis Borges. The person sitting next to me laid down his complete life confession because he knew that we would never see each other again. Such a mechanism exists with priests, psychoanalysts and prostitutes.
This ‘come-back’ of this question/answer today, made me think of our Paul from Austria who, as he confessed to us last week, he opened his heart and left it ‘unguarded’ to a .. woman, who then became a .. nuisance to him maybe because she knew his Achilles’ heel.;]
Our best wishes and thoughts are with you, dearest Paul, to your way to Santiago and towards the Light.
LOVE,
Thelma
You are right there Paulo. I often used to think that when people used to go and visit the doctor and they ended up with their Valium pack in their hands. It is another way of venting things.
Love
There will always be a need for the confessional outlets that these such avenues allow, because there will always be a constant striving for the ultimate happiness. No one person is ever truly so happy that they don’t need someone to confess to.
There are three other reasons why I believe this statistic happens.
The first is that prostitutes are paid to promote pleasure, and this welcoming behaviour can create enough comfort to make a man shed more than just his clothes.
The second is that prostitutes are viewed by these men as woman who are less likely to judge than people who are not being paid to “sin” and therefore are not an antagonising threat.
The third is that of human nature. The two most depended on interactions for human wellness are touch and communication, and unfortunately there exists many people in this day and age who do not get the chance to interact on such an honest level with others in their everyday life. The many reasons for this even include the very technology that allows for this discussion to take place. They either do not have the social skills or the confidence to satisfy their need for confession.
It is in recognising the raw human need for why this is the case, that one can see just how understandable it is, and even more so how it would not be surprising if the true statistic was even greater than 20%
Well, I agree with ‘xandra.Less talking more safety.You never know what might happen.Yet it is good in times to open urself up so as u are not drown.It’s always a relief because when u confess ur personal information u show urself.You don’t have to be some1 else at that moment.But a happy person probaply wouldn’t have the need to do that.
This can be dangerous,now you can tell the story to the whole world.Never say never,you can meet somebody in the most unexpected places.Ok,if you are really desperate,yes,why not,but still ,is better,my opinion,avoiding such kind of confidence.