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In Brida, a book that I wrote back in 1990, there are two ways to recognize your soulmate. Through Magic – meaning : entering a state of transe in which you can see a bright spot over the shoulder of your soulmate – or, by taking risks, by making mistakes, by being with the wrong people until you find your soul mate.
So here is my question: Would you try to find your soul mate through magic or by taking risks, making mistakes?

l’idea di riconoscer l’amore da un punto luminoso provoca interesse,credo pero’che imparare a riconoscerlo,rende tutto piu’em ozionante…quando siamo innamorati ,tutto ci sembra diverso,questa e’ magia….
Through magic or mistakes?
Is this a question or a unite state?
It seems to me that magic is supposed to interact among others ,with people in everyday practics.
So my opinion is both.
You can not discover magic if you do not search and do mistakes.You can not discover mistakes if you do not practice magic.
its ceratainly a magic..and after that fairytale forever..
I would love to say through magic, because it seems more stable, simple and sure. But i think i will still go for taking risks and making mistakes. I have had a very turbulant love life for my young age, but from each and everyone of the men i’ve loved i’ve also learned about myself and about the face of the world. i have become who i am through this way of expressing and experiencing love in my life. For me, i need to love, i must fight for all my loves, because they provide me the tools and the path in my life; and with each person that i touch and who touches me, my vison of life and my believes seem to become more clear. So i think, in this life, it is essential for me to be taking risks and making mistakes in love, to achieve who i am in all my glory. I think this life has a powerful, and in the end beautiful, lession for me.
Maybe next time my soul will be ready for a more spiritual/magic way of finding my soulmate or it is yet in store for me in the years to come; but till then i continue my path as it opens infront of me and with the loves it has to show me even if they are “mistakes”
Taking risks and making mistakes is not LOVE i feel it is an experience of life! My experience says Love is an unpolluted magical feeling ..ignorant of all risks and mistakes..”IN LOVE” feeling is flawlessly magical , pure ,honest and very positive which can never be a mistake or risk. To Wait for that magical feeling in life i trust things will be more beautiful .
i think love is the biggest risk we ever take. Waiting for it to arrive and not going after is not being brave, it is not taking the risk of getting hurt. The brave ones love. They can lose and hurt, thus it becomes a risk. I didnt mean to imply that the act of it, or the feeling of it would be a mistake. But i definately believe that is necessary to love in your life – however many times and forms a person finds it in their lives.
LOVE IS RISK? Not et all. Love is simply life! without love there is no life. love is not that complicated feeling.. it is very simple small n divine!
Bravo! I know what you mean. It is like automatic instinct when the attraction turn out to be a risk. I can feel the mistake, hurt of people, dishonesty of others, lies, lack of true love. But people say a person is not experiencing life if they do not take the risk. But for me what if you know, and acting on real Love is more important then the experience of life.
Love is not that complicated and heavy feeling.you can enjoy life with true love only..it may be with god, with money , with opposite gender , with same gender , with your work or anything… experimentation is certainly not love!
if magic is in front of me i would choose it as long as it will not complicate things. have anybody felt being so connected with a person even if both of you live apart from one another?even live a different lives and once again meet yet was separated again by distance. i have been getting signs about him but i am afraid to open up because i’m afraid to be seen as easy. i know he feels for me but none of us spoke out our feelings. maybe today is not the right time for us.i wish the universe will lead us back to each other again.