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In Brida, a book that I wrote back in 1990, there are two ways to recognize your soulmate. Through Magic – meaning : entering a state of transe in which you can see a bright spot over the shoulder of your soulmate – or, by taking risks, by making mistakes, by being with the wrong people until you find your soul mate.
So here is my question: Would you try to find your soul mate through magic or by taking risks, making mistakes?
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Greetings Paolo, please find a moment to read this wonderful article about Soul Mates, by open-hand ; (Chris & trinity )
Regards,
Hikmat O. F. Msallati
Soul Mates and Twin Flames
Birds of a feather or feathers off the same bird?
Hi Openhanders,
We’ve been receiving many questions of late concerning the subject of soul mates. It seems many are out to find their “ideal” partner in life. So what’s it all about? Do we meet on a dreamy white cloud and sail off into an eternal sunset whilst cherubims play their sweet soul music? Or is there a bit more to it than that? Both Trinity and myself are soul mates who have joined in union in this incarnation to help one another. We felt compelled to write this joint article which you might like to read if the subject interests you…
The Twin Flame
The subject of soul mate would be totally incomplete with out first addressing the phenomenon of the “twin flame” because the former arises from the later. Please allow us to share…
The purpose of our soul (from our perspective) is to undergo countless incarnations in order that it may fully and completely express itself as a unique glorification of the One Life. In order to do this, the soul needs a powerful mirror. It achieves this by dividing into two. The division is notional just as all separation between individual parts of the One Life is an illusion. Both are complete, whole and yet the soul is comprised of two complimentary parts. Yes it’s a paradox of creation – the ultimate divine paradox that generates the experience of relativity (“Yin” as opposed to “Yang”) and therefore the miraculous experience of life itself.
The purpose of twin flames is balance; they are directly complimentary to one another. This polar equation is necessary to create momentum and direction on the path of a soul. Without it, our journey would likely be random, chaotic and meaningless or even non-existent. Our twin flame draws us back to the source like a universal magnet; it is our memory of the original condition of absolute completeness expressed through the finest quintessence of form; she is almost, but not quite, completely formless.
Upon incarnation, one half of the soul remains in the highest levels of consciousness close to the source. Its purpose is to continually draw the other back to its true nature. It does this by manifesting reflections of itself through the weave of life surrounding its ‘other half’. For example, the half that is incarnated may suddenly find themselves drawn to a particular cloud formation, the awesome beauty of an animal or the miracle of mother nature. As we feel the stirrings of love, joy and harmony within, it is our twin flame that we’re likely connecting with reminding us of who and what we are. She creates our pathway and the beauty we experience on it. The connection generates safe, unattached passage through the external drama and helps unwinds the conditioning that limits our limitlessness.
When we finally realise the presence and beauty of our twin flame, rather than getting engrossed within the mirror of them (believing our partner is them for example and attaching to that), we are blessed with the most profoundly magical state of being possible within incarnation. It is as if a hundred thousand angels are constantly positioned all around us, helping, guiding, nurturing and above all, unconditionally loving us. When the essence of our twin flame draws close, it is as if a divine being is sitting above our heads pouring a continual cascade of love downwards through our being. We will only feel this fully though when we give up the external search for an object of our love (a soul mate for example). If there is still residual need for another half to make the whole complete, this magical experience of divine self love is not possible.
Frequently the twin flame will appear in symbolic representation – a spiritual vision for example such as a unicorn or some other mythical animal. Sometimes it will appear in the people we are attracted to or form relationships with. A twin flame may even cast an energetic ‘enhancement’ (a rose tinted filter) around someone close to us in order that we may see the reflection and find the self love within. Earlier in our journey it is likely we’ll be seduced into thinking this partner is our twin flame. Indeed we may get duped in this way many times thinking “this is it”, “I’ve met the partner I’ve been looking for through countless incarnations”. If we have such feelings, what may have happened is that we’ve possibly met up with our ultimate soul mate. So what exactly is a soul mate and how does it relate to the twin flame?
Soul Mates
The term soul mate has a tendency to arouse romantic images of a pre-destined, ideal mate, upon which reunion results in the blissful, harmonious ‘answer to all things’. However, (at least in our experience) the truth is very different indeed. So what is the purpose of our soul mate? From our perspective it is this…
A true soul mate represents the closest reflection of the twin flame that is possible in physical incarnation. The soul mate is not our twin flame, but has agreed to partner through many incarnations to help us connect with our ultimate holy grail.
So the true soul mate presents a continually updating mirror to their partner in order that we may peel away distortions, find inner completeness and dissolve into union with our twin flame. Of course looking in the mirror is not always something we wish to do – especially if what we see doesn’t agree with us! To intensify matters, there is simply no escaping the mirror once its shown to us – all of our buttons seem to get pressed at once. We are continually exposed to the ‘good’, the ‘bad’ and the ‘ugly’! We might be forgiven for wanting to run a mile but then the love that unites both by a common cause pulls them back together for another round of intense navel gazing.
For a soul that is just beginning to emerge, this process would be too destructive and so union with our soul mate doesn’t usually happen at the same place or time until they have released sufficient karma and let go of remaining emotional attachments along the path. From our experience soul mates don’t incarnate together at all until each are ready to move on a higher plane of existence as part of their spiritual journey.
When soul mates unite there is no allowance for anything other than pure honesty and clarity between them. Remaining distortions surface immediately rendering union almost incomprehensible before most of our ‘stuff’ has been released. It doesn’t serve any of us to connect before we are ready. Frequently people go through many relationships that help to fine tune and release attachments until they are sufficiently evolved to move on to higher paradigms with their soul mate. Of course we may often experience deeply fulfilling relationships with someone other than our soul mate before we get there. It is all part of the grand unfolding of a unique soul.
In conclusion
Frequently we read of people searching for their true soul mate. Unfortunately this is just another alluring deception of the matrix in which we live, attaching us to the endless spinning wheel of need or desire for physical and emotional fulfilment through something external to the divine within (our twin flame). When we release our attachment and reconnect with who we really are, peel away our distortions and allow our beingness to magically and effortlessly shape our reality, then first our twin flame will come calling, inviting us to unite in solitude. When this divinely magical event takes place, we may well be blessed by an encounter with our true soul mate in order that we may experience divine union in physical form but that’s unlikely to happen if we’re efforting for it.
It may well be a long wait, and the journey may be winding, but from our experience, it’s definitely a destination worth not striving for!
Chris & Trinity
Magic or risks? I have always wanted to be able to use magic, though i have never taken it seriously. When i read Brida i was charmed by the story and wished i could do that too!
When i fell in love four years ago i new that he was the one for me but it ended up painfully a few months later and now we does not even talk to me. If i had the ability to see if he is my soulmate even now i think i would do it just because of curiosity. But still, if he really was a part of me i think i would be really dissapointed. I love risks but i want to learn the truth in the end, so i would propably use magic.
Dafni, Greece
Paulo, I would love to hear you definition of a Soul mate. I have met so many people along my path who have contributed to me at different levels of the soul, some who have made me learn about the darkness of my own soul and those I thought were my soul mates because they reflected the perfection of my soul. I have always wondered what was the purpose of a soul mate and do we define what that person is based on our own experience of them or the experience of ourselves… I have met a few people at different stages in my life who were put in my path at that given time in order for me to give, recieve or learn. I don’t know if we can call on those as soul mates.. Would I use magic to meet that person or discover my soul mate – No. I also believe that a state of trance in any given moment will always bring you closer to your own desires, physically, emotionally or sexually it could just be a desire and nothing else, I would never want to question whether I actually prompted the person there unwillingly through a state of trance and magic or whether they path was entertwined with mine and thats how it was mean’t to unfold…
Interesting read though… Bless
Raeesa
Hi Paulo,
Thats a good question. In this modern world, you always end up meeting the wrong person. To find the right person and live happily ever after is only found in movies and books(like in Eleven Minutes)
I am quite happy in my current state will continue to remain in this comfort zone forever!!!
Thanks
~B
I would definetly take a risk. Because even if I meet someone who´s not my soulmate I´ll create a relationship. Strong or weak, it doesn´t matter. But according to me, our life is based on relationships and they are making us stronger and smarter, they help us on our way of self-discovery. That´s what I was taught by my soulmate (bacause I have a chance to know one) who died one year ago…And I met him bacause I did take a risk.
Dear Paolo, thank you for everything you are doing, thank you for your books and thank you for letting me create new ideas while reading them.
Sincerely, Bohana.
Dear Paulo,
I am 34 years old and I am still looking for my soulmate. I have been taking risks and making mistakes and trying to find my soulmate for more than 15 years.
After all those years of being out there and trying my luck, I am tired. I feel very ready to find him, but I still have to go through the procedure of trial and error and I am feeling that I am running out of time. If someone was to teach me a magic trick to find him right away, I would go straight to that option.
However, I realize that I would not know deep in my heart and soul what I really want and I would probably not appreciate him as much when I find him, if I hadn’t been through all those experiences, if I hadn’t made all those mistakes.
I believe experiences and mistakes are necessary in order to decide exactly what we want in life and what is our purpose, but at the same time, people should be able to use their internal ‘magic’ attraction to make things in life flow easier and bring to them the experiences they desire.
We all have the internal power to attract great people and positive experiences and we could make our life easier through this ‘magic’ quality we have inside us, if we manage to unlock it. Ulocking our internal ‘magic’ attraction, we can make less mistakes and minimize negative experiences until we reach our goal and in this way move faster in life.
P.S. I dream one day to be a successful writer which touches the souls of millions in a positive way, like you! xx
Throughout my life, the whole risk-and-mistakes process I followed searching for my soulmate has been quite hurtful but still also very rewarding. I can see now that this, for me, has been the main process towards maturity and self-awareness. So, choosing the magic would have been a temptation (bearing also in mind the scars and fatigue the other process left me) but I would definitely picked again the risks and the mistakes. Because I believe that there’s no point in finding my soulmate if I, myself, am not mature enough to appreciate this blessing and “fit” enough to offer him the most improved version of myself possible. And because, for me, it’s not enough that “someone” points me to my soulmate. I need to deeply experience and appreciate the connection.
I really liked this question, Paulo. Thank you! But I have one more question for you: are we sure there is only one soulmate for us in this world?
ha – without seeing the video I spontaneously have to say that AlsO with magic! there is no guarantee you will make the relationship work… the chance is bigger – still there are all the usual struggles and challenges life contains for both parts, forces them to grow, forces them to always renew and take care of their feelings for each other. Magic in itself when it works! *smile*
Risks …….. yes i am always doing that Paulo but always leading me to the wrong person, i will never lose hope it is ok i am running after the sun some day i will reach my destination.
Thanks Paulo take care
Shaima
I’m a practical, logical person – or so I thought until I met the woman I was going to marry. Is it magic that on the first second that we met my immediate thought wasn’t “pleased to meet you” but “Ah!, there you are”. We had never met, we came from towns many miles apart and from opposite sides of a centuries old religious divide, but the second I saw her I knew – no doubt, Iknew her, I had always known her – or at least my soul did and it told me! – magic? or hormones?
That is a big question…but who says that magic isn’t a risk too? Try to read and control the unknown, the supernatural powers that control our lives isn’t a risk?
I believe that love by itself is the greatest risk and greatest magic at the same time….and i am sure that my soulmate is somewhere there and i have met him someway, cause that is universe…..offer you traits ans signs and let you explore….
So i believe that we all have found and met our soulmate for a least one time even feeling him/her but we haven’t sensed and realized it….it is to our hands to take the risk to explore …and the most the pain and mistakes are be sure the most close you are to your soulmate….and this is the magic of life…just OPEN YOUR EYES!
I agree with a post above that says “a little of both”. I like to cheat a bit every now and then lol
Dear Paulo,
I think there might be third way to meet your soulmate – if magic uses you, as opposed to the other way around. :) I was not in a search for my soulmate, I was perfectly comfortable by myself. Then one night I had a dream where I and him were joined in a magic ritual/ceremony by a master. Two weeks later I saw him and found out his name in another dream (I couldn’t see his face in the first one) and exactly a month later I met him in the physical plane. I didn’t try for any of this, it just happened…
But to answer your question, I think I’d use magic, even if it may be considered “cheating”. Magic for me is a way to attain knowledge. If we have the ability to use magic, and we are wise enough to know when to use it and when not to, then using it would be my preferred choice.
Imagine a story without a conflict, smooth flowing, it is boring right… and the characters didn’t learn anything about life.
They both have the same goal, to find your soul mate, but it has a different path. Its a question of which path you’ll take. Left or Right tunnel both will lead to the same destination, but a different person will come out of that tunnel. The one will appreciate and value life more, and the other will disregard the blessings that he/she has.
For me i’ll take the risks, for i know when i find my soul mate i will appreciate and value him more.
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En primer lugar, mencionar que Brida es mi libro preferido, tanto por el contenido del mismo como por el contexto personal en el que me encontraba al leerlo. Gracias por una experiencia tan positiva.
Creo en tomar riesgos en este sentido. Para mí, encontrar el amor romántico es uno de los objetivos de nuestra vida y no quisiera que fuese tan fácil… Además, llevo 7 años con mi pareja, y soy tremendamente feliz… Sé que tiene el punto de luz. No necesito comprobarlo.
Two paths to the same destination..each one has it’s pros and cons..one seemingly easier but with hidden ups and downs..while the other you know it is difficult, it will take time, and sometimes it will hurt, so you are prepared for it.
For now..I am using the 2nd one..but if I had the chance to learn magic, and find my soulmate through magic, I wouldn’t pass it – as you said Paulo in Brida; women use magic to find their soulmates..
Thank you for asking a question I myself have been thinking about :)
I will take the risk or better I will embrace the chance.
With Love
always Maria
I have made a lot of mistakes in my life looking for my soulmate. But everytime after figuring out that he is not the one i had to let that person go. And it always caused pain for them, and for me. They were unhappy because they dint want to end it, On the other hand i was unhappy to cause pain to them(after all i had loved them once). Even after making so many mistakes i still haven’t been able to decide who my soulmate is.
Currently I’m in love with two different people, and not able to decide who is the one. Both love me greatly and its for me to decide, who is my soulmate and whom i will eventually end up hurting.
I’m sure one of them is my soulmate but i cant decide which one. I live them both and dont want to hurt anyone anymore.
My life has become a big adventure filled with trial and error affecting the most beautiful and most sensitive area, HEART.
Its too much pain for me to take now. I just hope it ends soon.
Paulo please advice.
I’d use magic, or my intuition which i have used in the past. I believe we have more than one soulmate. I’ve been lucky enough to find both of them in this lifetime. I’m sure there are even more. They show up when the time is right and they exit when the time is right.
Karin
Of course, risk! A little of craziness and the determination of keep looking. But how much is enough? Will we get it just from taking risks, or we already missed it?
Live with passion, love yourself and everything else, and take your chances!
ps. who won’t want to know it my magic?!?
Hi!
I would choose the second option. I think that I, as most people, don’t know what it takes to practise magic. And my spontaneous reaction is, that using magic is as cheating on life. Since I also think the second option contains it’s magic.
Life tend to show us the directions without any specific practise. Listen to the heart, and let it guide you. The trial and error version with a twist. :)
Love
Tony
That’s tough. Most people would love for it to be so easy as to just do magic and find your soulmate, but I guess the magic only works if you have said soulmate in front of you to use it on. However, nothing is perfect, so if you could find your soulmate right off, you would probably make a lot of mistakes and screw the whole thing up and possibly lose them forever, but by taking the hard way of being with some of the wrong people first, you make the mistakes with them and can use your lessons in order to not make so many mistakes when you do find your soulmate. I think I’d like to go through some of the wrong people first, and then use magic on someone I think might be my soulmate.
Some people believe we have more than one “soulmate,” and that we could be happy within ourselves whether we chose to partner with one or a number of other people. This idea resonates with me. At the same time, I also believe that souls reunite with other souls they have known in past lives. How we find one another is magic.
Personally, I’ve found that taking great risks can bring great personal rewards. I also sense magic plays a role in our choices, whether or not human beings are ready to admit or accept this.
http://blog.dreambuilders.com.au/journal/2007/3/29/the-biggest-risk-ever.html
http://blog.dreambuilders.com.au/journal/2007/9/8/the-biggest-risk-ever-follow-up.html
http://blog.dreambuilders.com.au/journal/2008/2/18/the-biggest-risk-ever-follow-up-2.html
Si tuviera la oportunidad de ver el punto luminoso sobre el hombro izquierdo de mi otra parte eso solo me garantizaria que es mi otra parte y como bien explica en su libro Brida “todos tenemos muchas otras partes ” hombres y mujeres ¿qué me garantizaria no lograr ver varias personas con ese punto? y al final eso no significa que esa otra persona me complementará en la parte sentimental, ¿o si? Tal vez solo esta de paso para enseñarme algo. Mientras que el experimentar y cometer errores solo hará que aprenda y valore mas a esa persona especial que llegó a mi vida y me acepto y me quizo o mejor dicho me sigue queriendo a pesar de ser yo y de todos mis errores.
Through risks.
I traveled around europe, i made the “Road of Santiago de Compostella” because i love travel,i’m curiose, and i believe that my soulmate was over there, but only meet the wrong (not in bad sense, )people. I believe i never know him, so i enjoy my life alone and with the people around me.
Just after i feel like that , i’m back to my city, I know my soulmate. Even if i could not see the bright spot over his shoulder, i`m shure it`s him. i feel it. i see his eyes with the special bright one night.
we live toguether since we know each other one year ago.
kisses.
JULS
The act of making mistakes and meeting the “wrong” people makes the bond with your ‘soul mate’ that much stronger. Ideally, magic could be used in tandem with the normal methods. Every time I have loved, I have learned so much about my own and human nature, which led me to love my soul mate very deeply, truly, completely, and realistically.
Thanks for the beautiful question, Mr. Coelho!
Aloha & namaste ∞
There are three main ideas within the comments to which I agree in part to become a whole. My own.
I don’t look for a soulmate, you will find each other on the same path of life, after all you are mates with one sould it’s invitable. Now, the fact of not being able to recognize that person may be the downfall here. To that, the second idea comes handy,
Magic, what if Magic tells you faces of his/her identity, like Hair, skin color, even age range, profession, nationality and a few other clues. Some people would think this is awesome to know all this, right?
WRONG… Magic has told me all this, nowadays… I find myself finding this ‘one’ in every other that fits that archetype…
That leds me to the last dilemma: I must take risk to discover out of all, wich one is ‘the one’. Learn form my mistakes, materize my faults to be able not to only find him but to nurture a long-lasting relationship.
Then again, I could always go back and ask for confirmation of my findings… but what’s fun about that?
Dear Paulo!
Entendo seu ponto de vista, mas não quero continuar tentando e errando no final… isso machuca muito.
Gostaria de poder sentir algo que fizesse com que eu acertasse nas escolhas… e, quem sabe, finalmente encontrar minha soulmate.
Kisses, with love!
Camila
Yo prefiero tomar riesgo para conseguir quien pudiera ser mi alma gemela…en esto puedo errar…o en este proceso puedo conseguir momentos màgicos,,,o quizàs sin querer puedo dejar pasar la oportunidad….pero siempre, siempre, siempre tomando riesgos en el campo de los sentimientos.Amelia
What an intriguing question! I don’t know many people, if any, that believe they have found their soul mates… still I wouldn’t want to give up on the idea. It is as beautiful as the idea of “God”, worth hanging on to. I would choose magic in with no doubt, if I knew any magic. When it comes to mistakes, too many are already made. I’ve suffered and made suffer. Learned a lot and maybe given some lessons. For now I choose being patience. Accepting that maybe not all people are worthy of finding their soul mates?
Life is nothing without risk. To truly experience life, to learn the lessons that God intends for us, we must risk. I agree with Jacqueline above, avoiding risks is cheating.
The paths we unknowingly choose in life lead us in directions that we might never have gone if we knew beforehand what the outcome would be. It’s like the Garth Brooks song “The Dance”. If we had foreknowledge of the outcome, I think we would miss out on a valuable part of our life experience. Happiness is a life long process and part of that process is trial and error in relationships. It forms us and shapes us, it makes us who we are. Using magic to find one’s soulmate would be taking the easy way out. I don’t think this is God’s plan for us. I don’t care how many times I experience pain, the experience of searching for love and learning from each lover is something I consider priceless.
I think Magic and Risk go along together.. Like for instance.. you’ve met this person and you know in an instant that there’s magic. There are sparks that will bring you both together as one. But then it doesn’t stop there.. there will always be conflicts because that’s how life is, then the Risk will come. It’s either you take it or give it up. I always trust my instinct.. and for all the mistakes I did in the past I have learned that fear no longer fetters me. I can go on in this life meeting new people, recognizing if there is magic and if there surely is, then I wouldn’t hesitate to take a risk. For it is only then that you learn.. to be strong, to put faith more in your life and to love again and again with an open heart.
My thoughts are similar to some of you here, I believe that we don’t need to look for our soulmate, they somehow appear in your life when you least expect them but at the same time we should be receptive and attentive to its unannounced arrival. Our hearts also need to be opened and willing to take the risks that love entails.
Paulo,
Life can hurt us in so many ways and in love we are especially vulnerable. But the pain that we suffer serves to make us stronger and to appreciate our true success. Therefore I would suffer a thousand broken hearts to find my soul mate. Using magic would possibly lead to less heartache, but the heart is the strongest muscle in the body, it was made to withstand the suffering we place upon it and to deny it of it’s own path would be to rob it of it’s essential journey.
I think I’m not yet halfway along my path and by God it is hard.
Hello Paulo
I would choose the second option because not everyone has the ability to use the trance-like state and as such, may never meet anyone even close to being a soulmate. I believe there would be more of a chance of finding your soulmate using trial and error.
With love and respect
http://jonturkler.wordpress.com
Yo sencillamente confiaria en mi corazón y me arriesgaria, aunque si supiese magia y viese el puntito luminoso me hubiese ahorrado más de un disgusto. Aún así confio en mi corazón. Ser capaz de amar de forma incondicional es para mí la verdadera valentia.
Un beso
Clara
I would choose both. Taking the risks until one day- when you’re ready- you’ll see the light. How emotional would that day be when finally after so may heartbreaks, misunderstanding, wrong timing…you found home.
The answer lies in the question:
“Magic or risks” is an anagram of “orgasmic risk”!
;-)
To love is to co-opt pain. Risk is the anxiety or the anticipation of pain. We live in a world where duality’s friction is the driving force of all action. This is why so many religions believe in the Trinity, because we instinctually know that two forces are operating as one (thus three exist) A soulmates is a helpmates who assist one another to operate as one entity and fulfill the gaps within the other. It is at times a painful, scary process, but worth its weight so to speak-
I think people will ‘meet people’ no matter what so I don’t think it matters if you have a ‘floating orb’ above someone’s shoulder or not telling you she/he is your soulmate.
I think Paulo…what you’re really asking… which is better in life: Certainty or Uncertainty. Ease or Unease? The short answer: Both. ;)
-C
Hi Paulo,
I really love this book.
I’d like to find my soul mate through magic without mistakes.
Interesting question ! I believe we should take risks ,learn our lessons and when the time is right our soul mate will cross our path :-) and when this happens ,I believe our soul sees ,knows and feels the vibration ..I wonder about this light though on the right shoulder is it a sign or a reflection that you see ..I think magic is incredible I do not discount its use on things ..but love is a very splendor ed thing that all of us come from and wish to share with our soul mate .About past lives I believe we bring people we love back in again to see them ,let go of any doubts we might of had about them in say – Egyptian times etc and we whether they where our lover /friend we carry this memory in our cells too.
But to sum it all up + just go for it ! hey if it feels right you can walk -talk run or skip ..what brings us to a person is the heart .Love Tania
En Brida se habla que es en el camino de la Luna que se reconoce el punto luminoso pero también se dice que en el camino del Sol se reconoce a un alma gemela mirándole a los ojos, si yo me tuviera que identificar con algún camino me identificaría con el camino del Sol.
Pero meditando en la magia y en el amor casi llegué a la conclusión que es lo mismo, como si fueran sinónimos, estoy segura que la magia emplea la energía del amor.
Un beso Paulo
Bom, eu faria os dois!
Very basically: While working on meditation and all the rituals involving the first optin, I wouldn’t expect them to work just over night.
So meanwhile, I would still take my chances if I met someone i felt it was worth it to spend some of my time with and get to know.
Beijos, e “aquele abraco”
Erika.
(by the way, i will be posting a blog in my own myspace page this week and hope to get your response! it’s a question I haven’t received or heard an answer to that satisfies me!
And, speaking of myspace blogs, yours isn’t accepting comments is it?)
Yo opto por la opción de magía, porque realmente creo que es así como se dá.
El encontrar a tu alma gemela no requiere de presiones, estoy completamente segura que nos cruzamos una y otra vez, pero no somos capaces de sentirlo o verlo, porque aún no es el tiempo…
Pienso que las almas gemelas se atraen como imanes y que tarde o temprano se encontraran por esa misma fuerza interior que les llama el uno al otro. El amor puro y sincero, más alla de lo tradicional y lo que podamos imaginar.
Lo triste es encontrar “tarde” a tu alma gemela, porque ya eligió a otra persona, pero bueno… en el Cielo no hay tiempo ni espacio y yo creo que Dios es el amor mismo, Él es quien nos creo y si acá no puede ser, pues será alla el reencuentro.
Pero sí creo que es mágico 100%.
I’ll do it through magic !! yes I mean it.. it might work at least..
I’ve been taking risks for so long and it took me no where; it gave me agony and regret.. maturity maybe..
But hey, it’s about time to have a permanent soulmate; a real one.. so if you could give us the magician’s recipe that would be great !
By making mistakes and being with the wrong people till I find the right one.
Every failed attempt has gained me a clearer understanding of what would help me recognize the one who’d be my soul mate. Every experience has helped me discover a new side to my personality and new depths to this thing called love. I would like to continue this way.
Thanks for Brida, it is an amazing book.
Como guerrera que todo el tiempo esta luchando, experimentando, tomando riesgos, pasando por muchos sinsabores, desearia en este momento saber el metodo para porder ver la luz sobre el hombro izquierdo. Solo se que el solo hecho de existir es magia y que por muy terrible que paresca el momento, Dios no nos deja solos.
Saludos desde la costa al Pacifico de America del Sur.
Cecilia
Hello Paulo Coelho! I hope that I use both ways. In the beginning I tried to use only the second way. But recently I have opened for myself and the first way. And now I think that it is possible to look at once at essence using Trance or to follow in the usual way meeting people and to make mistakes (or good job) which change your life… But I think these two ways are related. They are interconnected…. Because our real life and which people we meet this reflection of our internal work. All is uniform. It is possible to go on any of these two ways. The main thing to know and trust that you go on the your own way.
If you dont have risk then you dont have great victory! ;)
But we can try to see with trance what really we want in our own life. And then we can do it even if it have risk.
With Love from Russia! Julia.
Magic would be the easiest way to recognize a soul mate and would probaly be my prefered choice. However, I know that what comes easy goes easy. Unless we make mistakes and take risks we can not grow. To truly appreciate someone, I think, we need growth.
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