Comments on: Magic or risks?

By: Titiksha

Titiksha — Mon, 12 Sep 2011 20:01:35 +0000

Well…I believe that its not us….but its love that find us…

My personal experience: I believed in magic,…and I looked over the person I thought to be my soulmate and knew that he’s the one…

…and then some all of a sudden alterations happened in my life..and it started to seem out to be that …he’s the one I can’t get!

I mean…u really can’t decide whats a magic and whats what…it is only what you wish out to be and what you never did expected

By: Dave C

Dave C — Tue, 16 Aug 2011 19:43:32 +0000

I think most of Mr Coehlo’s questions do not have a ‘right for all’ answer! Although I would suspect that the process involved in acquiring the discipline, skill, and ability to be able to use magic for this purpose would involve taking risks, making mistakes, and chancing to be with the wrong person(s).

By: Dave C

Dave C — Tue, 16 Aug 2011 19:33:45 +0000

And then what; Once the soul mate is found….once the highest riches have been located…once the most powerful position has been attained..once ‘success’ has been fulfilled.once we feel full; then what? Is there a place after all of that where it all makes sense, or would that place come before? Is the journey to, actually a coming from? Are we born with all we need, with a faint memory of what it was, and what we aim to re-gain? Are we going home?

By: Jackie noriega

Jackie noriega — Mon, 01 Aug 2011 20:36:33 +0000

justo son las dos formas para encontrar tu alma gemela una forma espiritual viendo mas allà de lo normal usando la concentraciòn y hasta llegar al trance de una forma subliminal o cometiendo errores como se podria decir de equivocaciòn en equivocaciòn o de tumbo en tumbo la suerte juega un papel muy importante

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By: Jenn

Jenn — Wed, 01 Jun 2011 03:17:50 +0000

I know what’s considered the “right” answer here is by taking risks. I’m sorry, but I’d like to find my soulmate by magic, by seeing the point of light on his shoulder.

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Accelerated Bsn Online — Mon, 18 Apr 2011 06:37:32 +0000

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By: Rishabh Bhasin

Rishabh Bhasin — Sun, 27 Mar 2011 23:45:13 +0000

Tough one.By making mistakes, by discovering.

By: nadeen

nadeen — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 18:58:25 +0000

u were brave not every 1 is

By: nadeen

nadeen — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 18:56:48 +0000

love is how u feel it it needs to be felt and nurtured and with time it grows if being together with someone still makes u feel empty then u need to leave that life for in search of ur soulmate but that puts ur life in risk that u might just have to lose what u actually have in hand and thats what a quest for love brings u and 1 has to scrafice many things 4 it and and even u have to hurt many ppl who love u( but u dont love them)so how can u just carry the burden of this hurting ppl love is so difficult to handle its just so risky and magical

By: Bruno Marsala

Bruno Marsala — Sun, 20 Feb 2011 14:50:37 +0000

I have had the magic but I have also taken the risks. Looking back, all were amazing in some special way. Life brings you some wonderful, interesting, unique souls but I would have to say that without taking the risk either way you will never know. I am happy today I am a blessed with my partner and someone I love and she has blessed us with 2 beautiful boys and our life is getting better everyday. I know she took a risk with me but we both agreed there was some magic the moment we met.

By: silverkinjal

silverkinjal — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 19:58:36 +0000

Soulmate is a word that is being cheapened along with a host of other expressions with beautiful meanings. For my two pence worth, mistakes are a part of life, opportunities to increase your learning. Opportunities for introspection and deeper thought. Magic is what? Life is magic. Has its own rules and code. I don’t believe in glows above shoulders per se. Is Paulo teasing everyone ( nicely) ? ‘Soulmates’ are all around us. We are one body, one spirit. There is no separate existence in reality. We are one consciousness. ‘Soulmates’ are people who feel just that. That sense is magical.

By: farida

farida — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 19:24:24 +0000

you should… and may be you will when keeping it in your heart will be so much more painful then saying it out… i was in love with a person for eight years… but i never spoke my feelings… but once in a party he was close and the fire got irresistable… for ten straight night i cudnt sleep and was so restless then eventually i build the courtage and called and talked… after two months… i was normal and i was comfortable… we never ended uop together but taking that risk made me feel like a winner… already… next time it was 4 years… and this time it was 2 weeks… i went after him as soon as i spotted… i am glad those practice sessions helped me not take more time… so go on… if u feel resisting it is getting unbearable and to do away with it is much mroe peaceful then holdiong it inside then u seriously have nothing to lsoe… pray to god and hit the button….

By: farida

farida — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 19:16:31 +0000

its faith and beleif. prayers can help. if you think that the emptoiness u feel in ur life only she can fulfill and no one else u wud wnat in her place… then may be she will recognize u too in time… but for that she has to come around the fact that u r the one… unless she finds her own life mate who she is happy with and content… u still ahve a chance… and she mioght then give u space. but u have to be focused and do all it takes… u dont give up… and mind u there will be lots of pains and rejection and words which mught cut u… but if u beleive and want it bad u will not give up… and the sacrifices wont end as soon as u both are married… u will be asked to put up to a lot and survive it if u want love to win… cuz love doesnt necessarily always end in bed of roses… until ur kids come and then even then sacrifices are part of life… so dont be dishearten when peace is couples with pain… thats the beauty of true love

By: farida

farida — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 19:10:54 +0000

true… u r quite close.

By: farida

farida — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 19:09:43 +0000

i would like to find my soulmate to what knowledge i have gathered from my religious gatherings, and my hearts desire. that is by finding my own way to him, through chances taken, mistakes made and journeys made… if someone wud tell me a majical way to reach my soulmate. i wud definitely try it… but only if god wud be happy … see if life was to be lived fast forward and i had only 5 years to live… i wud take the fast riute to find all my oys… but if i know that i have a lot of years to run, and my journey wud be interesting if i had some dreams remained for later years i wud e happy and always excited, looking forward to surprises… like wats next and that makes me feel good abt life as i am always havings oemthing whioch keeps me wondering wats next… and soulmates search has been the most exciting wonderful so forth… all of my desires keep coming in front of me… like signs and majic… i ahve a feeling that i have met my soulmate though we are not yet together forever… but i do know that i will not be anyone elses… unless he claims me to him. yet a FEAR WAT IF THIS faith is wrong makes me walk and take a different route but somehow i always find walking on this path mroe comfortable and in line to my values than any other… nothing to lose… i feel

By: kim alfred

kim alfred — Sun, 23 Jan 2011 00:58:35 +0000

Its really hard to show someone who you really are especially revealing the most covert part without suffering the different consequences such as being mislead or misunderstood.

I just wonder the possibility of being so certain to one thing. How do you really know that she is the one?

By: kim alfred

kim alfred — Sun, 23 Jan 2011 00:41:54 +0000

Does it have to be a choice?
Do we need to find them
or let fate find its way to cross our path?
If we do how do we know it has happened
and how do we know it has already happened.
Does it mean that when we are in search of our soul mate hurts, mistakes, and frustration are inevitable?

I think we do suffer from being separated from our soul mate.
Because I always feel that sense of dissatisfaction in my life that seems to be an abysmal appetite.
I just wonder if this is because of my distance to God or to my soul mate.
May be it is both.
May be my soul mate is my way to the creator…

There are lots of questions lingering in me but I know for sure that I need both of them to complete my life’s meaning…

By: Dave C

Dave C — Tue, 04 Jan 2011 20:56:59 +0000

The question provides the options of finding a way to learn how to perform magic, likely a very stern and difficult discipline taking time, patience, trial and error; OR to find a way to learn from trial, error, mistakes, risk. I think that the lure of magic may have swayed me at certain times to accept what may appear to be a quicker and easier road, not because it is in fact easier, but because it would appear so. I would imagine that in the end, there is no such thing as an easy road to anything worthwhile of attaining. Only very hard work involving pain, joy, and the full gamut of experience in order to re-arrive where you started, with bruises, broken bones, worn heart, but satisfied soul. Battle on WOL’s.

By: Gowtham

Gowtham — Wed, 29 Dec 2010 04:34:51 +0000

But,being with the wrong people leads to emotional attachments and it is very difficult to break them and come out .It hurts.

By: ivana

ivana — Sun, 28 Nov 2010 19:52:20 +0000

trough magic…

By: minna

minna — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 20:51:41 +0000

i will neither pollute my soulmate connection with magic nor take risks or make conscious mistakes. but repent for the past follies and solely rely on the One and the True Force to enlighten me to treat every relation as a deep twinsoul connection and to make true commitments to each realationship.if we follow this Path, we will surely find our twin in this world or in the Hereafter.

By: Princess

Princess — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 08:29:59 +0000

I’ll take the risk.

By: Sylvanril

Sylvanril — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 00:46:44 +0000

Life, love and all that is magic. Every CONCIOUS act is magic.
I venture that even if we find our soulmate, he/she may not be concious enough to be cogniszant that we are theirs.
Timing is an integral part of all things in this world and sooo key to the journey.
Would you agree Mr. Coehlo?

;)

By: Sanctus

Sanctus — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 11:22:37 +0000

I tried to find my soulmate by taking risks and making mistakes.I made many mistakes and i am still paying some of them, but finally i found her!The big problem is that she, as Brida did, haven’t found me yet..I don’t know how to show her that I’m the one she’s looking for,because i tried everything.The question i need to ask is how may i saw her what i am for her without telling her, without making a big mistake again.I really need an aswer, and i would like to thank you because you helped me a lot, in the search of my self, love and my personal myth.

By: Suela

Suela — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 11:26:49 +0000

Magic.
Do I know magic ,so as to decide whether we prefer it or not?I don’t know magic.
So,I must first learn magic, then answer.

By: eleonora

eleonora — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 14:22:57 +0000

l’idea di riconoscer l’amore da un punto luminoso provoca interesse,credo pero’che imparare a riconoscerlo,rende tutto piu’em ozionante…quando siamo innamorati ,tutto ci sembra diverso,questa e’ magia….

By: Suela

Suela — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 13:20:09 +0000

Through magic or mistakes?
Is this a question or a unite state?
It seems to me that magic is supposed to interact among others ,with people in everyday practics.
So my opinion is both.
You can not discover magic if you do not search and do mistakes.You can not discover mistakes if you do not practice magic.

By: ELLINE

ELLINE — Fri, 06 Aug 2010 12:59:46 +0000

its ceratainly a magic..and after that fairytale forever..

By: nammu

nammu — Tue, 03 Aug 2010 15:30:40 +0000

Love is not that complicated and heavy feeling.you can enjoy life with true love only..it may be with god, with money , with opposite gender , with same gender , with your work or anything… experimentation is certainly not love!