Comments on: Why women believe that we love them

By: gabriela

gabriela — Sun, 29 Aug 2010 03:22:39 +0000

hi,
reading this reminded me of something i ve read a long time ago.it s an interview with a former romanian tennis player, Ilie Nastase(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ilie_N%C4%83stase),he is speaking about why he loves women and his wife.
i tried to translate this article as best as possible and i apologise for the mistakes…hope you`ll enjoy it as much as i did first time i`ve read it.

“Why he loves women?

First of all because i exist because of them!

Because there is nothing in the world you can compare with the soft touch of a worried mother
on the forehead of a giddy boy tormented by his tennis racket, too big and too heavy for the weight of Iliuta( Ilie)at 5-6y old.
Because they always remind me of the ice cream brought by my older sisters,to their little brother in hospital,
when i had my tonsils removed.
Because women gave me the first shiver of love who use to equal the winning of a long dreamed tennis tournament.Because they all loved me,and they haven`t been a few,the way you love an idol.
Because thousands of them used to shout my name and give me the confidence i can win any tournament as long as
they were in the stands.
Later,i loved an extraordinary woman who gifted me with a wonderful girl,called Nathalie,.. then another one who
gave me the opportunity to adopt the most beautiful children in the world,Nicky and Charlotte…and now, a woman who gave me something i never dreamed i will ever have again after so many lightning loves, a warm and sunny
(shiny) love like a day of spring and an angel called Alessia.

I love women because they know how to give us hope when there is none left, because they love us the way we are and they have superlative degrees of comparison only.
I love them because they lie to us beatiful that we are unique on earth.

I love women because they hold the secret of life,because they only know what it means to bring in the world
a soul who will later say the word “dad” and you will melt under the soft touch of a palm as small as a leaf.

I love the women because they are romantics and they see us as knights in shiny armours ready to save them,
although they are the ones who save us and give us a purpose in life.
I love the women because they need our love,the love we wouldn`t dare bring to surface if they wouldn`t ask for it.I love the women because they let us protect
them like some fine and fragile porcelains, but they are made from the toughest steel that would never bend if they
have to protect their love.
I love women because they teach us the word “home” and they fill our life and time with the happiness and joy of a
home.
I love women because they are near us when we are sick and they make peace in the universe for us to rest.

I love the woman that made me forget all women.
I love Amalia! ”
– Ilie Nastase interview for Tango Magazine 2005(http://www.revistatango.ro/ilie_nastase_quot_iubesc_femeile_pentru_ca_ne_mint_frumos_cum_ca_sintem_unici_pe_pamint_quot-22.html)

By: shawi

shawi — Sat, 21 Aug 2010 21:40:09 +0000

i love da way u write de truth paulo…

By: Sara Wright

Sara Wright — Sun, 06 Jun 2010 02:49:42 +0000

I would add one more ‘because..’

We men love women because they become a “mommy” not only for our kids but for us grown up men too, and we love to be back in our childhood, because we miss the days when there were no responsibilities…

By: marie-christine

marie-christine — Fri, 02 Apr 2010 20:54:19 +0000

in mathematical terms – because they want someone who is going to understand the other side of the equation

By: J St Louis

J St Louis — Sun, 28 Mar 2010 23:39:20 +0000

“because they smile everytime they pass a child”

By: Rajesh Kumar Jena

Rajesh Kumar Jena — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:56:10 +0000

dear sir

what u written over there that the finest one.

we love women.
we love them because we need love. we need affection. we need care. we need pleasure. after all we need a heart to sit aside and ready to listen.

and you also strange to know that word “LOVE” about which we all noted over here and feel according to us is itself a FEMININE. LOVE is the concept of women. They are said as the incarnation of love.

Sometimes I also imagine what would happen if there is all man, sounds little disgusting. ya its real, NO WOMEN, NO WORLD. see the relationship w for world and w for women.

and here after all we love women because we love our existence, beingness.

Thanks.

By: varghese

varghese — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 13:50:05 +0000

romantic chewings !

both are seeking who the best DNA carrier is !! hahahhaha!!!

By: Deepa N

Deepa N — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 09:39:36 +0000

We believe in Men because we love them…..and its beyond our imagination as to why a guy should not love us back when we are there always for them,when we are ready to accept as they come, when we are happy even by holding their hand, when what we ask for is only a hug.

By: core

core — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 15:55:02 +0000

funny and partly true! started to think why women would love men + +’

By: Ahmed Samir

Ahmed Samir — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 10:04:54 +0000

True and funny.

By: ada

ada — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 12:26:53 +0000

Oh, thats why I still haven’t found the love of my love! I can identify with just 8 of this statements. :-)

By: Sabeen

Sabeen — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 07:49:55 +0000

aaaaaaah i like this………..:)

By: abi

abi — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 08:30:05 +0000

exactly!!!!11

By: NICK

NICK — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 03:38:14 +0000

I LOVE U PAULO!!! THIS IS GREAT!

By: Noor

Noor — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 23:44:50 +0000

Because there is a woman in every man, and every man looks for a woman who is close to his woman…your soul-mate is inside you..but you can’t see or touch ..so you look for woman who looks like you!

By: sajeer

sajeer — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 13:07:16 +0000

Hi paulo.. i really enjoy your writing. i read this when i am in office, i couldnt stop my laughing. everyone in the office started gazing at me. i really love you and your writing..

i really enjoyed the above pen, its really fantabulous.. i do love women but i learned something new from this to be reasonable…

By: l'eclaireur

l'eclaireur — Sun, 03 Jan 2010 22:17:04 +0000

I saw a superman once on this site :)

By: JYOTI

JYOTI — Sun, 03 Jan 2010 20:30:32 +0000

Well why do men love women, do they?
yes they do.
Its only that they can’t express that.
when we smile their heart becomes jubilant. They like the way we dress,we put upon us those tonnes of lipstick, those uncomfortable hills & skirts. But we girls actually forget that they like those fashion dolls but they love us as we are, as real human beings. they love us as a mother, as a sister, as a beloved, as a life partners, as a friend and above all as their better half(ardhangini). A person who with no obligation, no demand be with them, when they need them most.who walks with them like their own shadow in pain and suffering, in disease and health, even in their life and after death. Loving women is quite natural of them yes if a person declares he do not love any women then really it will be surprising, and yes I am saying surprising not shocking, because being women one is above any expectation. Even against any expectation which is actually their right.

By: Taurean

Taurean — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 02:12:32 +0000

The woman, are truly the Mother of Mankind.
A benevolent woman may bring a Heaven on Earth into the men’s and the children’s life
Otherwise, a malevolent woman may create a Hell on Earth for the rest of their life. People said, ‘there is a wonder woman behind a superman’.

By: Dr. sumit shah

Dr. sumit shah — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 15:15:46 +0000

this is the true reason

By: Dr. sumit shah

Dr. sumit shah — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 15:14:39 +0000

thanks for such nice tips

By: Mary L. Tabor

Mary L. Tabor — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 13:33:08 +0000

Because we believe in repair…

By: Antonela

Antonela — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 12:55:52 +0000

I think that every man just needs someone to take care of them, someone like their moms, that’s why they love us!
And we are ok with that :)

P.S. Great text!

By: Marcy

Marcy — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 14:44:45 +0000

I agree, Crisol. Also, as I always tell my husband, any cleaning or other work around the house that he does is excellent foreplay.

By: Awaiz

Awaiz — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 19:05:49 +0000

Dear Crisol,
I truly agree with you… My wife doesn’t state any of your points but…
Every problem that I tell her, she gives a simple solution and one look in her eyes tell me that I have the strength to solve the issue…
Every moment I hold her in my arms, she sighs with a prayer to God to bring us close…
And her smile every time I give her a flower says it all…
Every occasion that I do something special for her however small a gesture, she cherishes it forever….
If I say “I Love You” she hugs me tight… If I say “I really do” she looks at me disapprovingly….
I tell her I’ll be late from office, she packs a extra lunch… I say thank You, she seals it with a kiss…
There is much more And for all this I love her…
Pray you have a happy healthy life with your husband…
-Awaiz.

By: Tamara

Tamara — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 18:32:45 +0000

and i also think that a man love a woman beacause she will always be there for her true love and she will wait for him even though she knows that he will never come back, but she is certain that one day he will ,,,

By: Priya

Priya — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 16:32:45 +0000

It really was a good read. Funny at many instances.

By: gentjana

gentjana — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 11:07:58 +0000

i just found your site ,and i enjoy reading it…you are Great Paulo…love,Genta

By: Crisol

Crisol — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 06:12:46 +0000

I think this article is a little bit old fashioned. I do not agree on the part that it says that we clean the house and we do not expect a compliment or recognition. That is not true. In my case I do expect a little of consideration and hope that my husband tries to keep the house as clean as it is. I as a woman do not eat only salads, I love all kinds of food. I may not be perverse in bed, but I do love making love.(Not only to please my husband, but instead to please myself)
I think that men have alot to learn from women.
The most important things a men should know of a women are as follows:
1. We are of a sensible nature
2. We need to be loved with sweetness
3. Most women (even if they don’t say it) love flowers
4. If a man wants to make love, he needs to say sweet things
5. We love to be caressed
6. We love to feel like a princess
7. We can do anything for that special man
8. Give our life if possible for that true love

By: Eva

Eva — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 20:12:43 +0000

Men love no only women but the men too -just like the women love men also women.
All is about the desire and need to touch and to be touched ,to listen and to be listened -this is our basic deep instinct. . .
And if we choose woman or man -it depends of our sexual orientation.
All the reasons writen above are nice and funny -it was nice to read them but truth is much more simple and short -that´s all.