yes death is scary. it shatters you. but then it allows you to celebrate life.

in india even death is one of samskars a ritual of your life.

I feel less lonely.

http://sagravani.deviantart.com/art/Solitary-Rush-91979903

Is it just me? but sometimes I feel when I think too much about life, I feel like I’m going in circles… and for some reason routines keeps me sane, makes life a little simpler at times… and then, after that “non thinking moments” I have more questions about life more than ever…

I guess routines are okay as long as we’re not stuck with it, maybe as long as we recognize that there are more to life than what society dictates…

Death is the only thing we are sure it will happen, but in order to be able to live, we must forget our mortality!
LOVE,
THELMA

“We eventually distance ourselves from them; and then we are forced to confront loneliness”

” we end up asking ourselves whether such an effort is worthwhile”

there is no other way ! freinds who ‘give up’ are merely postponing what they must undertake, time is no constraint, because on universal scale of things time does not exist. everyone must confront lonliness, and sooner the better !

it’s like this
imagine a box full of butterflies, a huge box filled with cocoons. slowly the inscets emerge from most cocoons and the whole huge box is awarming with these insects. now each of these insects have a potential to develop wings, be beaytiful and enjoy the freedom ( and dangers too ) of flying in sky. humanity is like that, each one of us will have to become beautiful, will have to develop wings; but unlike butterflies where there is no free will, mther nature gives us free will, we can remain like insects of as long as we want, for as many births as we want; but we will have to raise and meet our destiny, we will have to develop the wings, and it’s a solitary process; not that lonly also, there are ‘like minded’ people at every level.

so let’s rejoice and rededicate ourselves to a life of meaning, a menaing which is not readymade, but which we have to give it.

one can postpone but one cannot prevent one’s enlightenement !! and also teh efforts required for it.

love
aditya

Alone on the path. We are all alone on our own path. We choose to come on this planet from the women who is very complex organism in itself. A women can be called as earth itself. A women whose complexity can be called as simplicity. A women creates us from the very core of her inner self. She takes care as the earth and Nature does. Once we come down to the earth then we are on our own.

One thing every human should understand is “a person is always alone on the path”. It does not mean that the person is in the stage of the loneliness or being alone but he is living a life of the alone.

Those four elements for the survival are really necessary to understand why you are walking down the alone path. Love is always necessary to understand either is it the love of mother or it is the love of the true lover.

Death is necessary to know that the very existence of your own self is going to end one day. It is also necessary simply because it keeps us alive in every moment we live. Every moment should be lived as if there is no moment next coming up. Every moment should be adventorus and exciting. Live with total joy and blessing.

I do not know if in the movement of trees, chirping of the birds and black cloud over the sky are the symbols of something extraordinary creature we called as GOD but I would fairly accept the fact that these are true color of Natures itself.

We can learn from just being present in the moment but at the same time we can loose nothing except our time for the present. The time is the moment, time is being present and passing with the moment.

As it is difficult to fist understand the “love”, it is also difficult to understand the phenomenon of “life”.

We all have to one day realize and will realize that whatever we are doing or whatever we are thinking to do are not that much of essential because these are just our logical mind which needs much more attention then anything else.

We fear death but why do not we fear the love ? It is just the matter of knowing yourself better than anything else. The person who knows himself will never ask who you are ?

The person who answer who he is; actually is not what he really is. The meaning is in finding yourself and to walk or take the journey in own way. It is like writing your script and taking the path but in case you have trouble to reach to the final destination that you really meant to reach. Simply learn from others and take there experience into your account. It will take you to that long long journey very easily.

Being alone is something entirely different than being isolated or disconnected or lonely. being alone is bottom line being responsible for my own development and unfoldment from unaware to aware, from spirituality asleep to spiritually awake. No one else can realize our own diviness for us, it´s an inner experience
that´s up for us to go for.

As for religions and spirituality – I see religions as codes of moral and spirituality as living ethics in our own hearts. It´s very much a question of whether outer authorities run our lives or we risk learning to let our inner ethics run our lives.

We´re here in this place together and we come here with very different awarenesses that we use as best we can depending on what we´ve learned and how we see life. No one else can truelly say what´s deeply true for us to be or say but our own deepest nature – which is love and love is naturally loving – when we are really, really sincere with ourselves, we do know what´s true for us to do.

I definetely think the ways we experience our live´s unfoldment is unique. I don´t see it as a general truth that everyone starts out life experiencing that we´re all together, sharing and being enthusiastic. Like the experiences of being alone or lonely or whatever is a tremendous challenge in one´s path – they do not to my experience depend on how old we are. It´s not related to physical age.

I´ve found that so much depends on with which awareness we´re present here.
If we see our selves as only physical, love, death, power and time can be unbearably hard to deal with. When we learn to experience ourselves and life from our deeper nature, our experiences of these parts of life transform. This is why the Buddists say: Sorrow can break our hearts. Or deepen them.
I´ve certainly at times in my life felt like the world´s most miserable, unhappy, lonely person, I was sure that no one had ever suffered as much as me….

Well, I´ve learned along the way that we all have our paths and our challenges – but that we´re all faced with challenges that are meant for us to grow and learn. And that we deep down carry with us exactly the ressources with which we can meet whatever we meet in our life. Life is loving and this Universes´s nature is benevolent. We´re faced with the lessons in life that we actually have the ress

ources in us to face and be able to learn from.

I don´t know if you can use this, but here goes… your love for whom you write you lost yesterday is alive. Love lives. May you find the comfort and help which is good for you now.