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Apparently the question of Lia provoked quite a lot of reaction and I have already been asked many times to write about same sex relationships. I’m not planning to write a column about this issue but in my new book “The Winner stands alone” I mention a relationship between two women.
I’m intrigued though and I would like for you to discuss openly about what you think about same sex relationships.
same sex relationship is clearly wrong because love is onlyfor man and women., . it is in the bible that a man should not love intimately his the same sex,.
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All I have to say is I just left a same sex female relationship of 17.5 years for no other reason than for Christ. It’s been a HUGE spiritual battle for me - searching for truth (whatever that may or may not be) in the biblical scriptures. I do believe that God intended sexual relationship be between male and female but then entered sin which messed up much in this world of ours. What bothers me deeply is the fact that I was molested by an Uncle who married, had children, and was accepted as a Sunday School teacher. To this day I pray he has NOT touched another child. For me, It’s ok for me to go to church but to be a part of leadership is not acceptable. I love the church and what it should be. I love Jesus Christ and want to follow His lead, learn and grow with Him. So I just had a lesson of tough love by letting go of my dearest love of 17.5 years for no more reason than…just in case. I didn’t want to be a hinderance in her walk with Christ.
How is this working for me? I’m still a “house divided” hoping I’ve done the right thing but missing her deeply and I don’t mean sexually. It’s just hard to imagine a sex organ would really matter.
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I don’t have any problems with that. It is an individual choice made by two people. Some of my friends are homosexual.They have a right to live, the same as me.
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Dear all,
It was very interesting to read through all the different opinions, it is so beautiful to see all of us practicing our power to chose “what we are”.
It is also interesting, when we see that often opinions/actions reflect our deepest feeling on the fact, that what we do not want for us we also do not want for others. Usually forgetting that what I do to others I do it to myself.
Who determines what is “natural” and what is un-natural? Everything that exists is natural, for the simple fact that it is there. We can then choose it for us or not. But this will be our choice, not someone else choice.
So, who are we to judge whether same sex relationships are correct or wrong? What is correct or wrong? Well all depends on which side of the fence are we seating at the time of choosing. Then once our choice is made, automatically the other option becomes “wrong”.
What we must understand and practice is that the same right that we have to decide what is right/wrong for us, is the same right that someone else has to decide on his/her own (without our approval).
What work for me, does not necessarily work for others. Shall I limit my options because someone one day wrote/decided that adult relationship that involves sexual activity “must” be between a female and a male? That this implies that my freedom to choose and express myself is being taken away, because someone else has already decided what is correct or wrong?
What is affecting our civilization today is not that we “think different” it is that we do not accept “to be different”, because different is scaring. What is correct for us must be correct for the rest. The others are always wrong. Different, cannot be control, and what cannot be control cannot be right.
I love the fact that we are free to choose “who we are”, but this freedom must always go together with unconditional love, the love that does not judge, the love that loves without expectations, the love that allow us to be and others to be just the way we freely choose.
Sex is not for procreation; sex is the most perfect union between to human beings, where we become “one” in perfect union. Sex is to have fun, to experiment with it, to express our deepest self. Sex is beautiful and Divine, a gift from God to us, to make the most of it.
Why such a pure thing as sex has to be condition to gender?
It does not matter who is having sex with whom! What really matters is that the two beings are doing it on mutual agreement, in communion, creating and expressing who they are.
Our world is full of choices, is up to us to make the most of it and let others to do the same.
To all I sent you my unconditional love!
Gabi
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I have already expressed my view above, but reading in a magazine the story of Austrian politician Joerg Haider, who was killed in a car accident recently, made me think, that ‘our freedom stops where somebody else’s freedom begins’, especially when we have to deal with Love, Sex and Family. It is said that he was gay and had a relationship with Stefan Petzner, although he was married and with two daughters. Now I would like to hear the opinion of all our friends above about this matter and dignity.
LOVE,
THELMA
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Sr Coelho,
My thoughts on such matters have been formed over a long period of various types of experiences. Love is the main thing. True love.
Love without fear. Love without condition.
I know you can have this with people of the same gender. David loved JOnathan as his own soul, and Naomi loved Ruth…but it was never sexual. The relationship I have with my best friend,is a guide I use for all as the healthiest I’ve ever known, coz the prinicple of relationship is fundamentally the same. The expression, form and intensity of love is what changes.
Perhaps those who feel free to express that love to another of the same gender simply see sex as a general way to show love. I don’t really comprehend being ‘in love’ romantically with someone of the same sex, no matter how much I love and respect, and admire them,although, I know others do.
I can understand how someone who just enjoys sex and that type of physical intimacy, would be open to sex with either gender, or both. In such a case, it’s only the act. but that happens with heterosexuals too.
Having had an abusive history with people who have unhealthy appetites for sex and domination, I don’t really understand this either.
I must confess not to really understand, other than if someone loves someone, and no one is being hurt, then “love covers a multitude of sins”. I think people fear what they don’t understand, or worse, judge it outright as evil, and I understand why they do.
But ultimately, I believe it to be about acceptance and the divine right of every human being to be free to choose their own destiny.
It’s not my place to judge, but to love. “whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable…think on these things” Phil 4:8-9 I can find something lovely in everyone and everything. That’s the part, I believe God sees too…and His eyes are so much more penetrating than mine.
It’s a pleasure to meet you…even if only this way.
Lisa
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I for one am always more interested in the root of an action than the actual action.A same sex relationship therefore in my view has its root.We are all born without a sexual preference but when we near puberty our orientation has been molded.I stongly believe that a homosexual strongly yearns his father’s love.There may be many reasons for this to manifest itself. The mother might have strong anger & hatred towards men so she may alienate the father’s presence in her son’s life.The father may be very abusive to his son or family.The male has almost no positive male figures in his life.The male then subconciously doesn’t want to emulate a male persona he instead craves for the male affection and hence emulates the femminine persona to attract a male inorder to receive the closeness that he so desperatly lacks from his father. In a lesbian relationship the woman craves her mother’s love.She enters in the same sex relatioship to receive the love she so strongly needs and lacks from her mother.She emulates more masculine qualities to attract the female.Knowing all of this I cannot be judgemental of people with that orientation.The dynamics in their upbringing made them who they are. I however find it very distasteful when they dramatize their relationship by being exhibitionists making it all about sex.
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Dear Luce, is Desire… not fueled… by Love? Love, Paul
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Sex is sex !
Love is love !
Sex as part of love relation, or sex as fulfilment of desire ?
As experiment when everything else is boring ?
Why so many persons do not distinguish one from another ?
Love the most powerful, precious and noble feeling is nowdays the most abused word.
Love
Luce
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Thank you Caro.
Maybe that is the reason I feel often very comfortable with persons having a same sex relationship. I may feel their strong love and the love makes the quality of a person.
All the best on your way.
Ruth
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well i think that u fall in love with a person, and not a sex.
dont u think that society has formed our thoughts in this question?? from the beginning i mean, that homosexuality, or bisexuality too, is something wrong, abnormal and discusting?? well, is it? really?? i have been growing up to belive that love is something beatutiful, and not wrong
how can it be wrong to love someone simply because they are the same sex?? i just cant understand it.
and all of u who comes with the argument that “they” cant give birth, flush it down the toilet.
sure ,to have a baby is a miracle and an act of love, but the love alone has nothing to do with babies and birth.
love is something totally different, its a state of mind between people that we shouldnt denie anyone. we, or society dont have the right to step between LOVE! asnd to tell anyone whats right and wat is not right.
we should see LOVE as something allmighty, not as a sexrelated thing!
sorry for my bad english, ill hope i have proven my point of wiew in this anyway…
kisses: Karolin from sweden
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hello there sir paulo, i read two of your books and they’re great. Oh well, thanks for that open question you’re asking from the public. I am a homosexual, I have a girl, for me, being in love and in a relationship is not all about doing the sex all the time. Lust is far off more than love. Love is just giving away your concern,trust and understanding to the other person, without asking something in return and when you are a good person, you do not always look forward to have sex with your partner instead you wake up everyday to give love to your partner, right? Yes, God tells us to go forth and multiply, but it’s our choice you know? It depends on us if we want to be a mother or a father, right? It’s not our obligation that if we grow old we should have our own families and feed them. I’m not anti-life. Im just explaining my side that, it’s not all about sex. It’s all about love. And love should be the reason why we all are bound in God’s grace.
Nobody should interfere with two persons who are in love.
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We fully support marriage equality. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LsSqLBAhdew
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Amei sua biografia.Já tem muito tempo que estava querendo escrever.Que vida”rica” de experiencias,de conhecimentos,vc realmente é uma pessoa mais que iluminada.gostaria de conhecer vc pessoalmente mas qdo vc está no Brasil,está no rio.Mas oportunidades não faltarão para que isso aconteça.E vai acontecer pois sou tão determinada qto vc qdo em sua ansia de ser um grande escritor.Abraços.
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Love is love, wherever it falls, and in whomever it grows - perhaps you agree Paulo?
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bo0om paulo,->
man and woman two works of art made by nature naturally,
over thousands of years of evolution,
there will be off shoots of evolution ,
leading to same sex relationships,
but i feel they are a resonance of love ,
a resonance dying out, to give birth to the
___next level of love,
every one is entitled to live and love ,
___the life they love,
naturally my friends ,
nature the cradle of love,
nature the cradle of life,
bo0om…bo0om…bo0om
much love to everyone,
love
fLUXman
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Thanks Paul from Austria!
A big smile from here ; )
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I live in a same sex relationship. When I am asked why I don´t live with a man, a always tell it´s not a thing of decision, of free choice. It´s a thing of love.
If I could have decided weather to fall in love with a man or a woman, I´d have decided for the man, because life can be more difficult living in a commonly non-accepted way.
But I fell in love with a wonderful woman and I am more than happy with her. Love is so strong and so wunderful.. love itself does not discriminate. It is what it is…
Caro
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I am a 71 year old American Grandmother. I believe all of us have the potential to be bi-sexual. Custom. culture, religios beliefs and man mad laws affect our choices. Having said that, I believe that there is also an inate prefrence we come into the world with. Same sex attractions, marriage etc. are taboo in most cultures and carry various sanctions. So people truly have no choice if they wish to be true to themselves. I believe someday we will find evidence to prove that. In th meantime let us be kind and understanding and helpful.
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Maybe same sex relationships is not bad, but church said that it’s so. And we blindly believe in it. But church is not God. And who are we to denounce homosexalist? God know eveything better!
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Love is…
Love just is…
it matters not the form it takes
what matters is love, finding it, living it and giving it
straight, gay, lesbian, transgendered…
titles dont matter
love is and that is enough
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Homosexuality is part of our world today. Gay marriage has been a hot topic in several states in the U.S. recently, particularly in California. It is currently legal for two people of the same sex to marry in California, but unfortunately there is a proposition on the ballot which could change that.
I don’t think anyone has the right to discriminate against someone or treat him/her differently because of sexual orientation. In addition, I think it is shameful to condemn someone on the basis of sexual orientation. I think it is equally shameful for someone to condemn homosexuality on the basis that it is “un-Christian” or against God’s will. I was raised as a Catholic, and though my beliefs have changed over the years, my values have not. What I learned was that Jesus, whether you believe that he was divine or human, was accepting of all people. This is how I learned acceptance and tolerance, and this why it offends me when people use religion as a way to condemn others.
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I think there’s nothing wrong with same-sex relationships if it’s something entered into freely and with much love. If a same-sex relationship is responsible for making one person feel less alone, cherished more, and capable of doing good in the world, then we should all explore this dimension of human relations.
Society should be flexible in accommodating the range of relationships its members can commit to instead of being stubborn and saying there’s only one. Diversity is a strength; not a weakness. And a society that can expand to include diverse kinds of people will continue on while the rest will fall by the wayside.
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If there is love, gender doesn’t mather anymore. :)
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Here in Australia there is a father and daughter who have decided that they love eachother (not like your usual father and child) but as mature adults who are having consensual sex with eachother. They have had children together.
The father was absent from most of her life but re-entered it when she was a young teenager.
I think most people would think that this is wrong. That obviously the woman is mixing up a paternal need with a sexual need. I think many people mix up love and sex.
But when you think about it, nobody can say anything about it because you could just say that as long as they are happy. Who is to question it.
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Hi
about same sex relationship i think it’s depend on how you look at it.if you believe it’s just you can Decide.it’s true
and if you think it’s against the God maybe not true.
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Dear Paulo,i beliefe that if it is based on Love,with all its deep caring and sharing,it can’t be wrong.
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The thing about love, I would define, is that it is something too pure to be limited to who you do or do not touch, or even to potentially physically limiting factors such gender/ethnicity/appearances etcetera. So if you ask me about homosexual relationships, one who ignores the world or what social protocol would declare norms, I would say that it’s the same thing as any other kind of feeling/declaration/emotion that you would call love.
People make it a point to point out that homosexuality or any differing form of love is different, but is it really so? In the end, it’s just two people (or more, if you’re polyamorous) who want to be together/spend their lives together/date/love each other.
In the end, I guess it’s all just down to how people were raised - to believe that norms are absolute truth/right (in terms of morality etcetera). Things like ‘heterosexuality equals what’s meant to be’ has been passed on for generations; it won’t change completely anytime soon, though society’s opening up just a little bit, here and there. It’s this socialization that makes homosexuality seem like such a problem. I’ve talked to many homosexual individuals who claim that they -want- to be heterosexual and ‘would change if they could’; personally, I don’t understand how such an idea could form in one’s head. How can you reject who you are? It’s all about acceptance/what society doesn’t like/allocated morality.
It’s like someone once said - “To create world peace, you’d have to change the human heart first.”
To accept homosexuality completely, you’d have to change the ideology of mankind that passed on for the past thousand years.
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sorry my last line should read
I know many gay people,and world WITHOUT them would be VERY VERY DULL.
Whilst I am here, when I was a little girl growing up a gay lodger we had called Julian once said to me: “when you read, you never feel alone”
I have never forgotten these words.
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This morning I had a dream, that I had SIXTEEN children, a husband I didn’t love but felt obliged by a Victorian duty and pride.
Thank God it was only a dream.
Reproduction is not love,
and Love is what we ALL deserve to experience.
I know many gay people, and a world without with them would be VERY, VERY DULL.
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What about new film by web by coelho’s my space?
http://bookswebtv.splinder.com/
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In these comments here and also in the past I have recognized that often men have problems to understand homosexuality and that they are not able to feel compassion or have empathy with other men who have the same sex relationship.
Sometimes you hear remarks made by men like: “Homosexuality? Perhaps it acceptable for women but not for men”
I ask myself, where is the difference? Every human being is able to feel love, that´s the same for women or men…
Why should homosexuality between men “vulgar” and between women “acceptable”?
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Paulo
I always believe that there is always a limit to everyhting and anything that a man can do or wants to do - the right and the wrong, the good and the bad, black and white. Having said that, I don’t see the universe in merely ‘black or white’ composition.
Homosexual act is wrong and will resulted in catastrophy and self destruction.
Having said that I am not saying a man cannot love another man or expresses their love to one another. Love can be expressed in many different forms between one another - writing, words, hugs, body language. But, to have a homosexual relationship is wrong. History has proven it and there are a lot of writings and texts has covered this issue for so many centuries.
Love is beautiful. But once love is interpreted against the rule of natur - it will kill you. The same applies to everything in this universe.
MM
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I was a molested by a homosexual friend of the family when I was 12. I did not ask, I did not want it, and it left me is deep distress for many years, even though I married and had children with my wife and have always preferred the opposite sex to be attracted to. And yes, we are still happily married after 35 years.
Personally I find nothing fascinating with homosexuality and rather much find it to be vulgar between men. With women I am not so taken back because there seems to be a tenderness shared between them, though perhaps there are some, maybe many cases where that is true between men too. It may be an allowed practice of choice, but my past experiences and thoughts leave me no desire to partake in any manner. We have friends and relatives who are and I find that they sem to be happy in the relationships they have.
What I have a real difficulty in understanding is why some have to be “flaming” and why so many are always causing themselves mental distress over “coming-out”. I just find the behavior like that quite immature. Though, understanding the mental behavior on the other side of the spectrum, I guess it’s understandable.
I do believe that being homosexual doesn’t make one any less divine, any more or any less susceptable to life’s disorders, and certainly doesn’t condemn one to an eternity of damnation. Some of the parties I know could teach many other so-called christian or religious parties much about loving God and living a spiritual life. For those who tout religiosity as a means of belittling our homosexual partners in life, check out what Jesus hasd to say about them…Basically - nothing.
Love, Joy, Peace, and Blessings to all.
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Tal vez mi respuesta no guste a un 30% de los que usan este portal, pero ya que la pregunta esta dirigida a SEXO en el mismo género, pues solo puedo decir que la idea me produce AVERSIÓN. En los mandamientos que Moises trajo segun la biblia, dice que el sexo entre hombres es aberración. En mis preferencias sexuales, no se si yo podría exitar a una mujer, no creo que una mujer logre exitarme a mí, pues lo que mas me gusta en el sexo es la sensibilidad de un buen falo.
Tengo amigos Gay, los amo como seres humanos que son, todavia no logro comprender en que momento de sus vidas DESVIARON SU PENSAMIENTO, he sentido que tuvieron una infancia terrible en la que fueron victimas de insatisfacciones sexuales de adultos.
Admito que mi concepto está arraigado porque en el último año he tenido conflictos, con la agresión por celos provenientes de un maricota idiota; y si algo me dio fuerza para salir fue un pensamiento inedito de Paulo, donde dice que la mujer tiene la virtud de comulgar con el agua, don que un varon por mucho que se esfuerce no podrá alcanzar.
Creo que la pregunta ya esta respondida, pues mi respuesta a sentimientos en el mismo genero sería distinta.
Saludos desde los andes americanos
Cecilia
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Supongo que la raza humana evoluciona.
Cada uno es una parte de un gran eslabón de esta gran cadena, por decirlo de alguna manera.
Sencillamente veo natural, y necesarios todos los comportamientos humanos que nos lleven a abrir nuestro corazón, y a ser mejores personas y sentirnos completos y buscar la “sanidad” espiritual y física.
Con lo díficil que está el mundo, en todo sentido, y la lucha que es cada día salir allí, creo que el que se crea capáz de juzgar a alguién por las elecciones de su corazón y su alma, es quien debe ser condenado.
No se puede reprimir, hay que aceptar lo que existe, dejarlo ser, fluír.
Creo que muchas de las grandes desgracias y maldades del ser humano, son causa que sentimientos propios sean juzgados y reprimidos por un entorno que nos pone difícil ser quien realmente somos, en todo sentido.
Hay que escuchar al corazón, como bien nos enseña el Alquimista.
Si las cosas se hacen con el corazón, con sinceridad y comunión, no puede resultar más que el bien de todos.
Suele ser complicado con los condicionamientos, las modas, y la confusión que existe.
Pero, os lo digo, vale la pena experimentar, lo que uno necesite, para saber quien uno es, y quien no.
Saludos.
Marcela
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я не знаю сможете ли Вы прочитать моё письмо, т.к. не владею английским языком так хорошо, чтобы свободно на нем изяснятся) да это и не важно, просто хочется оставить своё мнение.
я живу в Москве и могу сказать, что у нас достаточно людей с нетрадиционной ориентацией, но почти никто из них не заявляет о своих предпочтениях в любви к человеку своего пола. это как-то не принято озвучивать публично.
за себя скажу, что лояльно отношусь к подобным отношениям т.к. считаю, что каждый волен сам выбирать себе спутника жизни, и если человеку комфортно с другим во всех отношениях, то совсем не важно, что он того же с ним пола. У меня есть такие друзья, и мне иногда кажется, что они в чем-то даже мудрее и просветлёнее, чем пары разного пола. Их отношения глубже, потому-что не подвергаются стандартизации и они сами создают свой мир, не
подчиняющийся всеобщим принятым нормам - по этому их любовь уникальна.
AZ
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Where is the problem? I have not any with it!
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The more I am living in the life, I can see that people find the truth of it in different view. Answer is defniatly not to be the one of jugde because we simply can’t fayre without “God”s pespective. Love is answer for all men woman and all in tolerance and no judge what we no know.
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With regard to the children issue. Yes, the world is not perfect, but I don’t think the answer is to compound it with further problems.
Ideally a child should have the influence of a man and a woman in their upbringing. I know my nephew, who’s father was absent, constantly looked to the male in the family for approval. He would imitate them.
I’m sorry but however much a woman loves a boy, she is not a replacement for a father. That would be like saying that a mother or a father is not imporant.
People say that you shouldn’t question what others do, as long as they are happy. Yes, you would continue to love your child if he/she had homosexual tendencies, but would you not want to lovingly guide them, question them, help them?
This is not quite the same situation but there is a movie about a man who has a blow up doll as a partner. Now his neighbourhood accept him, do not tease him. And that is the right thing to do. Maybe they think, well if he is happy, what is the problem. But shouldn’t someone help him?
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I have been studying quantum physics with aims of incorporating such to my current understanding of alchemy… In the nanoscopic quantum world, there are a couple of sub-atomic particles that unite, separate, “create”, and “destroy” with each other over and over, gazilliions of times every day, every where, ect… Chemistry teaches us about “typical” polar bonds, “negative” polarized atoms bonding with “positive” ones. For those that understand the hermetic principles, ionized bonds make perfect sense when relating to the principles of polarity and generation. Human relationships also make sense with hermeticism when looking into masculine and femenine relationships. In the quantum world, however, there seems to be a lack of a clear polarity-generation paradigm when looking into the behavior of subatomic particles; I’d love to get into but it’s really confusing, trust me. Homosexual relationships also lack that clear polarity-generation perspective, even though same sex relationships are usually composed of one who is more masculine and one who is more femenine when compared to each other. What is clear though in quantum physics is that these interactions between particles occur, and cannot be disproven or refuted. I feel this is the case with same sex relationships… They exist, and they cannot be resisted by a group just because it does not fit within their particular ways of thought. I feel same sex relationships due have a purpose in our globalized, overpopulated world, therefore they are as natural as heterosexual relationships. In fact our species is not the only one capable of homosexuality. Many animals show some degree of homosexuality, including mammals. What is right or wrong always depends on who is making the judgement…
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As for my self I’m 23 years old, I’m gay in a current relationship. Been gay is something we dont choose, is something we are born with. I love been who I’m, I’m really extremely happy with my self, and my life is pretty interesting. I was born in Cuba, a country know for macho mens, and beatiful women, where gays dont fit in the society specially gay women. When i was 11 years old I was force to move to Costa Rica, ones again a country know for been very religios, I attend to a Catholic School, only girls. Five 5 years after i was ones again force to move to united states, I have been leaving here for the past 8 years and I came out of the closet 5 years ago. Eventhough my first relationship was at 7 years old. I have dated girls from all around the world, by the way my ex is a really beutiful brasilian girl that try to kill me. My point here is that gays are everywhere and our lifes are as interesting or more that straight people. I belive we are more emotional and caring… anyways thats just a bit of my story…
Ciaoo Kisses, I would love is Paulo writes a book about gays….
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Dear Dey,
I just have read the “poem” written by your friend Ali and I feel deeply impressed.
I wish you all the best for your search!
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As human being, as catholic [faith-based not church-based], as man, as gay man… As all of these, I feel and understand and live my life with a sense of love (couple love) that exists within the paradigm of what “homosexual” or “gay” is for society in general…
However, I do believe in a different world where that does not make a difference…
Paulo, your stories have inspired me in several moments of my life, they have ignited within me a sparkle to be stronger than the strongest of the obstacles, or just to let myself die for a while, to reborn from the ashes, cleaner and shinier…
Right now I am having a blog and a youtube channel in the search of the Man of my Life…
http://youtube.com/areyoumygayboyfriend
http://manofmylife.blogspot.com
I refuse to continue accepting the excuse of the world in which I live not to believe that as gay man I will find the man of my life…
My search is on, many have called me desperate, stupid, crazy or just simply “dirty faggot”…
It is part of the path…
Today I am happy with the decision I made…
I am in a search without pressure…
But I have followed what my heart told me to.
Cloudy times have passed as well as shinny days since I started this, more cloudy and sunny ones to come… Within them, one day, HE will come along, and I will be ready to receive him in my arms.
It was sad to hear you say you are not planing to write a book that touches the issue. I do believe that with the amount of people that read you, you will be able to write something that will touch the hearts of many to start getting a new perspective on what homosexuality is, or at least to stop bulling on us and leave us love alone.
My most warmest regards,
Dey
PS: Living in a world that is not ready to accept me, has not been an impediment for me to live my life with honor and truth. Unfortunately not every gay person feels this way.
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….only one remark concerning the influence of homosexual parents on their children. It does not exist any theory or analysis,that the children which live with homosexual parents will also get this kind of sexual orientation.
…and besides this: All homosexual persons have heterosexual parents.
“Education” can not influence sexual orientation.
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Hi Professor
I don’t know what university you went to but I think they will spell succinct correctly
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Querido Paulo,
para el amor, no hay fronteras, tengo amigos gays, y lo adoro, deben tener sus derechos como todo el mundo, un beso muy grande!!:))
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For me,
I am 14 years old and I do not support same sex marriage, because life was ordered by God in way that man should love woman, and not the other way around.Here in the Philippines same sex marraige is forbidden by the church(because the main religion is catholic)for man or a woman to love his/her other same sex, something is going n and is wrong with that person. Justification of same sex marriage is up to them but I still believe that it is 100% sin. Love is and should be bordered by the love of a person to his/her opposite sex, but of course a person has his own freedom of will given by God. For me love is and should be meant ONLY for man and woman, as God ordained it to be…^_^
takecare Paulo,
love your books.
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Well, anyway, that’s my point of view for what it’s worth. So to re-cap, in a somewhat foreshortened and intentionally sesinct manner, NO! …That is, of course, a qualified ‘no’. Notwhithstanding the more extrenuous elements of an olanzomoralistic perspective otherwise deliberationalistically derived from the musings of a wandering mind.
Professor Eldridge-Sinderton
University of
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