Today’s Question by the reader : Valery

Doctor and writer Nikolai Amosov once said: “There is one particular thing about the old age: there is no future”. Are you afraid of old age?

I think that one doesn’t need to be afraid of old age as long as one tends to one’s inner garden, to one’s soul. Age then does to the person the exact same thing as it does to wine – it gets better with time. The most beautiful thing in my eyes is to be in front of an elderly person that has this serenity and authority that only time bestows in those that are wise.

21 Responses to “Today’s Question by the reader : Valery”


  • I agree with you but it is still very sad to get older because there is a;ways somehing is left undone.
    Alla

  • wise men always has grey hair.as Gandalf,Merlin,Dumbledore..

  • dear Paul from austria
    just read again ur post,,,, and I love the way u write and describe ur opinion!!!!! wonderful
    Orly from canada

  • I like that Paul of Austria, a soul is like a bottomless glass, eternal.

    Sometimes the eyes of a child can have the wisdom of the ages held within them.

    Thanks.

  • ON a scale of 1 to 14
    14 – a strong one -

  • “Simply irresistible.”

  • TEME A LA VEJEZ SI DEJASTE ALGO POR HACER, ALGO QUE ADMIRAR Y QUE AMAR; HAY ANCIANOS DE 30, ACABADOS Y FRUSTRADOS. VIVIR INTENSAMENTE,DAR LO MEJOR DE TI, CRECE, AMA,TRASCIENDE, Y TENDRAS UNA VEJEZ MARAVILLOSA, SIN TEMOR AL SIGUIENTE PASO, COMO DICE EL POEMA:-VIDA, NADA ME DEBES, VIDA, ESTAMOS EN PAZ. AMOR, FE, Y TEMPLANZA PAULO. EXCELENTE INICIO DE SEMANA.

  • In my experience, it just gets better…and better…and better. i love growing! I don’t think of it as growing “older” or “weaker” or “closer to death’s door.” I just think of it as growing, and becoming, and evolving all the while into something better and purer and closer to the element of clear fire.

    I think, when the time comes, I’ll simply die by spontaneous combustion. They’ll find nothing, not even ashes, left of me.

  • i am 57,,, but i really feel as 44,,, i feel young,,, and in my caracter i will never be an old woman,,,, so for me age,, or nomber r just part of the story,,, i see my life as a very natural flow,,, and i know that i do many things that one day when i am in the heaven of after life,,,,,,my friends and family will see me as a soul which exist in between them,,, no i am not scared of getting old…. i am not afraid of death… i ll come back to this present life in a different form (LOL)…

  • “la verite sort de la bouche des enfants.”
    “the truth comes out of children’s mouth”

    :D

  • En la vejed se encuentra la sabiduría porque tenemos toda la síntesis de todo lo que aprendimos.
    Hoy en día viejo ya no es nadie, todos nos mantenemos mucho mejor en todo caso nos referiremos a los de mayor edad como persona mayor.
    Un beso.

  • Josephine in Brussels

    *smile*
    I’ve always liked to be with old people.

    Thinking about wisdom it’s perhaps easier gained
    with experiences, but often I think more of wisdom
    as a state of mind, as a common-sense-down-to-earth-
    open-mindness that makes a person able to cope
    with difficulties without loosing his cheerfulness.

    Like that wisdom don’t belong to a certain age,
    but more to ones personality.

    Wishfull thinking.

  • My idol is my grandfather who took a computer class at age 74, and also a class in french.
    He is always curious about life and always learns new things.
    The key is to stay curious … be willing to learn new things… find new dreams and goals :-)

    Love Jessica

  • Dear Valery,
    With due respect to Dr Amosov, I must disagree with this particular statement of his… there is always a future… be it the future which remains unknown to us until this life passes… or be it the future of the seeds we have already planted… the seeds of hope, nourished by faith… for all our sons & daughters
    Love, Unconditional… Never ending Love, Paul

  • I disagree with Asomov. Old age does not mean no future. No future is not reserved only for old, unfortunately more and more it is conected with young.

    I agree with you Paulo, especialy with last sentence about serenity of wisdom.

    Love
    Luce

  • … and I think it’s going to be another “good year” Paulo…

    Beauty is only skin deep… but a carefully attended soul… is a bottomless glass…

    Cheers ;) Paul

  • Wisdom is underrated. People are brainwashed to value
    physical beauty first and foremost. I think this is because
    it’s actually easier to be beautiful than to be wise. The
    path to wisdom is harder, no ingredients, no formula. It
    comes only to those who seek it hard, those who live life
    experiencing and learning.. those seeking to be better each
    day.

  • Beautifully put, Paulo. I could not agree more. I have always treasured moments in the presence of elderly wisdom. I listen as though my eyes beheld a King or a Queen, my ears a great poet or philosopher.

    The serenity about which you speak is a most contagious emotion and another gift for us. I have often sensed their private and quiet knowledge of what lies beyond the threshold of death. They also seem to possess a gift for seeing deeply into others. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to write a book through the eyes of one of these great seniors?

    When I was just a child, I had an elderly friend. She was about 95 years old, a neighbor. I was only 10. Occasionally, she would call me to her door, gesturing. We would chat for a few moments; she’d be telling me about her family. I’d sometimes run small errands for her. But mostly she just wanted company. She always insisted on giving me little gifts, like tiny jeweled pill boxes, costume jewelery from the 1920’s and other little things. I still have a few of them, some lost along the way. With so many other children around, I often wondered why she chose me. I have never forgotten her, and I am sure that I never will.

    Thank you, Paulo.

    Much love,
    Diane

  • wise men always has grey hair.as Gandalf,Merlin,Dumbledore..

  • Yeap it’s a great answer.
    I understand why some are afraid of ageing,it’s not my case but I do understand,the fear of changes,the fear of not being in control anymore,the fear of physical suffering sometimes,the fear of being alone and finally,the fear of death.

    It’s about how you feel inside and like the wine,yes it gets better with time,through experiences and wisdom like you just said Mr.

    Probably,I will change my perception of seing things in some years,don’t know.It’s often easy to say than to apply with time..

    We’ll see,maybe.

  • When we are children time passes so slowly.. Growing older it seems that the rhythm is accelerated. There is no time for thinking about ‘old age’. It is here already. It is the journey going towards the end, looking around still with the eyes of a child but also with the eyes of maturity and knowledge, which sometimes appears as Wisdom. It is the time to cut away from our lives, situations, tasks, people that may make us feel unhappy or tire us. In many aspects our duties may have been completed. We have more time for ourselves and to re-consider our priorities. Seeing inside me, I see all my loved ones dead or alive. They are all here with me and I am sure that even leaving from this life the way is an even more beautiful journey free from the ..restrictions of our vehicle, the ageing material body.
    LOVE,
    Thelma

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