The Road itself

by Paulo Coelho on July 1, 2009

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Javad May 16, 2010 at 6:15 pm

I think its one of the best rules in this book that you cant leave the road without a perfect excuse(like illness).I know it is a must and lots of people dont want to do anything by force.But its a good & perfect way to make the pilgrimer finish his/her job.

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Flávio October 22, 2009 at 10:16 pm

Quando li o Diário de um Mago achei super inspirador o que o autor (Paulo Coelho) fez. Costumo ouvir e ler algumas criticas sobre ele, principalmente sobre a sua forma de escrever, contudo na disso importa. Pois um homem deve ser reconhecido pelos seus feitos, e quando este vai ao encontro de si mesmo, luta com seus limites, trava uma guerra com seu eu e suas emoções mais profundas, e vence esta batalha; este homem deve ser digno de algum reconhecimento.
O Brasil é um pais de grande nomes da literatura, só para citar alguns, temos Machado de Assis, Eça de Queiroz, Clarisse Lispector, entre outros. E temos, no hall desses grandes nomes, Paulo Coelho.
Antes mesmo de ler Paulo Coelho (O Diário de um Mago), num determinado momento quis entender o que era a “força” que me movia, que me impulsionava a viver. Eis que empreendi uma odisséia pessoal e busquei Deus, o infinito, o Eterno, ou como queiram chamar; em todos os cantos visiveis e invisiveis. Eis que um dia encontrei-O cara-a-cara. Fiz também minha peregrinação, contudo não fui a Santiago de Compostela (Um dia irei), mas onde estive, possibilitou-me travar batalhas “sangrentas” comigo mesmo, com meu eu, com minhas emoções e sentimentos. Venci.
Ainda hoje continuo a lutar, acredito que será assim por toda a vida. Acho que é isso. Afinal, segundo Paulo Coelho, um “Guerreiro da Luz” nunca desiste de lutar!
Agora encontrei minha própria estrada. Sei exatamente de onde vim, onde estou e para onde vou. Deixo o acaso conduzir meus passos, mas o fim da história é certo e seguro. Quem poderá tirar minha paz e felicidade? Ninguem. A menos que eu deixe.
Prefiro contemplar a vida, transformando-a numa obra de arte, a passar dias vazios e sem sentido. Achei o sentido que buscava. Agora o que me resta é viver fora da caverna, transformando-me, transmutando-me, transcendendo-me… sem perder a essência daquilo que sou.
Desculpem-me o grande texto.
Fiquem todos com a Paz do Eterno Pai,
Abraços.

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Marta Adriana August 24, 2009 at 4:41 am

I’m so attracted to this road.
I picture the round stones, the dust, the heat of the noon above my head, the sweat and the tiredness.
I can feel the enthusiasm of the beginning and the weariness of the last steps of the day.
I figure myself dreaming so worn out unable to recall any of my dreams , and also getting up to a tasty breakfast.
I can see the starry nights, and the red skies before sunset.
I imagine myself being born each day anew to not forget the here and now.
I think of me walking towards myself.

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Alexandra July 29, 2009 at 8:32 am

I just remembered that usually every bildungsroman, stories in which heroes develop, are talking about voyages. Is interesting. Why one have to part in order to find who is in reality, and to grow? Of course is like an initiation test.

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Savita Vega August 6, 2009 at 4:21 am

Yes, I like that – the idea of the voyage, the journey…. I think of Ulysses, of Parceval on his quest for the Holy Grail, of Santiago of course…. I also think of the Fool in the Tarot, setting out on her journey. Card #0: the journey does indeed seem to be a prerequisite of some sort.

I can so identify with this myself at the moment. I am all packed and living out of a suitcase, bound for…. The Unknown stretches out before me like a glimmering ribbon, leading me on. At first it distressed me – the not knowing to where I am bound – but then I began to relax into this unknowing, to commune with it, to become one with it. Now I realize that it is this unknowing that actually gives vibrance to the journey, that vitalizes every step and heightens my awareness of everything around me. This aliveness – yes, I will call it that – this “aliveness” is what makes the journey worth the risk.

Is it an initiation test? I like the idea of it. If it is, then wish me luck.

Many Kisses,
Savita

Savita Vega July 24, 2009 at 6:39 pm

Just as with the workshop on The Alchemist, where I wished that the sheep had a category of their own, I was looking here for a category titled “the dog.” But, finding none, I decided to talk about him as part of “the road.”

I’m still reading The Pilgrimage, and just last night came to the scene of Paulo’s final encounter with the dog. I thought it was absolutely fantastic! I had no doubt in my mind that this thing really happened, because every detail was 100% in line with everything that I know to be true about the behavior of dogs and their interactions with humans. In each encounter with the dog, this one included, Paulo used his eyes and his body posture, as well as loud and aggressive noises (shouting, growling), to fend off the dog’s advances. This, in real life, is the best technique, and really the only one that works with truly aggressive dogs. If you lower or avert your eyes, even for a second, if you drop the dog’s gaze, this is a sign of submission (fear), and the dog will most certainly attack. Similarly, if you turn to run, you’ve lost, because the dog is going to come at you full-force.

When Paulo became like a dog himself, when he lost all fear and hesitancy and actually attacked the dog – knocking the dog down and pinning it to the ground, biting and scratching and going for the dog’s throat as the primary target – he challenged the dog’s dominance and established himself as the Alpha. This is precisely what dogs do to one another. This behavior is encoded in their genetic makeup. The greatest mistake that we humans make when we encounter an aggressive dog is to act like a human, to try to fight this fight on human terms, which usually means trying to out-smart or out-run the dog, neither of which works. The dog does not care how “smart” you are; it cares only how much fear it can instill in you. If you try to avoid the fight, shying away from the dog’s challenge, either by using your wits or by trying to out-run the animal, the dog interprets this as cowardice or weakness, and it will surely go in for the kill.

What Paulo did in this scene – pinning the dog to the ground, getting on top of it, and going for the throat – is a technique that I often use with my own dogs, either to establish or re-establish my position of dominance – to assert that I am the pack leader, the Alpha. I don’t do this out of meanness, and although it may sound abusive, it is not. It is, rather, normal pack behavior. In a pack, when one dog jumps on another and a fight starts between them, the Alpha will jump in the middle of the fight and pin the aggressor to the ground, grabbing it by the throat, as a way of saying: “Okay, that’s enough! Break it up!”

On occasion, I have to do this with my own dogs, to keep their aggression in check and keep them from hurting one another. Two dogs will be playing and then the play isn’t play anymore – it is a fight – so I have to jump in the middle of the two dogs, growling louder than the two of them put together. Then I throw the aggressor to the ground, holding him/her down with my own body weight, and grab the dog by the throat with my hand (simulating a bite, my fingers become teeth). Meanwhile, I stare directly and threateningly into the dog’s eyes; as soon as the dog averts its gaze (a show of submission), I release. As I say, this may sound cruel to us, but it is only normal behavior within a pack, the leader’s way of keeping the other dogs in line and preventing injurious fights within the pack.

I have to say, though, that when I read this scene – picturing in my mind, Paulo fighting madly and wildly like a dog, becoming dog-like himself – I laughed. I could just picture the look of disbelief on that sheep herder’s face. And then when the sheep herder suggested that it must be something that Paulo had eaten that caused him to behave this way, I laughed even more, so hard that I cried. (The tears were actually very cathartic, because I too had been very tense, like Petrus, wondering what was going to be the outcome in Paulo’s inevitable final battle with this demon.) Then I thought for a moment that he was going to kill the dog, and (I couldn’t help it) my heart was siding with the dog. I thought, “Oh no! Surely not! Please don’t kill the dog. I’ll never be able to forgive you.” But, of course, Paulo was stronger than that. That’s what ordinary cowards do – kill the animal, although the animal itself is just another innocent victim. Paulo was strong enough to release the dog from the grip of the demons that were inflicting it.

All in all, I think this is one of the most fabulous scenes I have ever encountered in literature! Not only because it was so very realistic, right down to the most minute detail, but because it is so profound in terms of the deep symbolic meaning it carries.

We all have to face our demons at some time or another, and if we attempt to avert this encounter, if we try to avoid entering into this fight, our demons will indeed pursue us for the rest of our lives. Fear – this is the key element – our mastery over our own fear. As Paulo finally realized, he was bigger and stronger than the dog that was trying to attack him. We are always bigger and stronger than our own demons because our demons come from within us – how could they be bigger or stronger then we are? We created them! Likewise, we have to be courageous enough to fight back with all the viciousness of an animal. It isn’t enough to try to out-smart them or out-run them – we must face them head on and battle them on their own terms, even if this makes us look, momentarily, insane. Whatever we do, we must not back down from the fight.

Thank you, Paulo, for one of the best and most enjoyable scenes I have ever read. I absolutely loved it!

Sincerely,
Savita

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Alexandra July 29, 2009 at 9:12 pm

Well, honestly, I was bit sad on seing a dog presented as a menace. But after all, all ended well. It was part of the road, here in certain circumstances. Maybe I am subjective, because since little I always had a dog. So, for me a dog is sign of friendship, not of a menace. I had my interesting encounter in mountains with a black dog. I was roaming between two resorts, alone, on foot, nobody around. Around me only forest, fresh air, mountains. But I felt something like fear. Than I just come aware, slowly somebody folowed me. A dog. Was nice. I noticed that he stoped if I looked, as if he was resting. Than, if I walked, he came from a distance after me. Than I was so good humored, I felt as a sign. I was not alone. My new friend, the dog was with me. Everything was all right, and when I arrived to the second resort, I wanted to buy food for dog. Well, he already menaged. He was just eating from a lady. I remember that story, because really I was walking in a place far from houses. So was interesting being in company of that dog.
All my best wishes
Love
Alexandra

Alexandra August 4, 2009 at 5:54 am

Thanks dear Savita. I was about to laugh when I read about the climber dog… Sometimes I see in tv , and the skilled are able of everything to go over a fence. Anyways, over the time I did notice you have interests in so many fields. That is great. Good luck in everything you do, and thank you again for kind comment and friendly wish.
Love
Alexandra

andrius July 24, 2009 at 12:35 pm

the road itself…
In my attitude, the road, sometimes, it is a way to reach some inspiration for creation…
In the road, we met some people who stay after traveling for all times and inspire you to do something really impressive and good…
sometime in same way we met people who stressed you very much, and we need a go with him all thet road, beacause road teach as what it important to us in this road…

all the roads teach us something important, all roads is full of inspiration and creativitie, all roads is full of freiens and enemies. sometime, all roads have road itself…

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Catherine July 9, 2009 at 4:40 pm

yes – of course – to do the road to santiago is a new ambition: one from reading the pilgramage admittedly….

and i should like to do it on horseback… because i have alot to learn from the pace of a horse in this life ;o)

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Barcelona_20_euros_en_un_café July 8, 2009 at 10:10 pm

´Someday I want do the road of Santiago. I heard about it the first time when I was so young a few years before to read this book. And I promisse me that I’ll do the last 100 km walking (I don’t feel prepare to do all the way, I know that I can but… ).Some day :-)

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Catherine July 8, 2009 at 1:30 pm

There was one book in particular that helped me to understand the journey of transformation, before reading the pilgramage.
i forget the title – but it was something such as The Ten principles.. and was published about 9 or 10 years ago…

anyway, i had expected a book just like the alchemist – in a way… but something more profound and personal…

it was quite technical.. in understanding the RAM…
however, it also became clear that the message was about the power of energy coming deep from within… and this is what can be accessed along the path to guide.

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Savita Vega July 30, 2009 at 5:06 pm

I love dogs too, Alexandra – very much! I have three of my own. My daughter has one. For the past three years I’ve also been working with a local rescue organization, helping to rehabilitate dogs that are labeled as “unadoptables.” Many of these dogs, due to former abuse, have major aggression issues and are of the breeds listed as “Bully Breeds” (Pitt Bulls, Staffordshires, etc.) I think it is probably because of working so closely with these dogs – trying to exorcise their “demons” of past abuse – that made me appreciate and love this scene in the book so much.

One of the things I admired was the fact that the dog itself was not portrayed as “evil.” It was merely a victim of possession by demonic spirits. This is the message that I work so hard to convey to people: that no dog, and certainly no one breed of dogs, is inherently “bad” or “demoniac.” The dogs become what they are solely as a result of how they are handled. People instill the demons in them through abuse.

Just last week, I adopted out the last of the dogs that I had under my care. She was a Pitt Bull mix that was initially so aggressive toward other dogs that I thought she might never be able to be adopted out. In fact, several “specialists” (including a trainer and one vet) had suggested that I just give up on her and have her euthanized. After two years, however, she finally came around and began to overcome her internal demons. She finally overcome her fears and was able to accept love. When this happened, she transformed completely and no longer showed any signs of aggression.

This period for me has now come to a close – I am left now with only my own three dogs – but I owe so very much to each and every one of the dogs that I have had the opportunity to work with over these three years. They have taught me sop very much. In many ways, they have helped me to exorcise my own demons.

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Alexandra July 31, 2009 at 5:16 am

Hi dear Savita,
Thanks for your reply. I dont know how you deal with four dogs, do you have garden? Now I have one, a Giant Schnauzer, female, is very kind. But I must move into flat apartment, at third floor, with no elevator… Dont know what would be like. For till now I lived in house with garden. I also took part in some dog lovers association, but only several months, till my dog instructor went abroad. I loved that period, we met with other dog lovers and tame them together. So dogs and masters became friends. I would like to learn more on dogs behaviour, the most I love the rescue dogs, but in my country only in one city they do such taming, and that is in a Police Academy… I was amazed to hear in tv that dogs as mine are only 600 in my country. Seem is a rare type. And is one of four or three breeds used by Army or Police, because of the qualities.
Take care.Have a nice time,
Love
Alexandra
P.s. Nice display image!

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Carolena Sabah July 31, 2009 at 10:38 am

Hi ALexandra and Savita. Really interesting stories on dogs and the ‘demon.’ I liked very much your interpretation of Paulo’s dog in the Pilgramage… I think he would agree that is a very accurate explanation! Wonderful Savita!
I’ve encountered this ‘demon’ many times, but not in dogs, humans yes, sometimes lol

love
C.

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Savita Vega August 2, 2009 at 11:23 pm

Dear Alexandra,
I googled Giant Schnauzer, as I have only ever seen the miniature variety. Very beautiful, regal dogs. Wish you all the best with your move. Can’t imagine myself how that will work, but I’m sure you’ll figure out a way to make it work.

I’m sort of in the same situation. trying to move, but of course, must find a house, with a yard, and a high solid-wood fence. One of my dogs is a climber and she can scale a regular cyclone fence like it isn’t even there. Oh, the things we do for our dear pets…!

Just have my four now, but in answer to your question, I do have a yard, at present, about twenty-five acres in the country. Otherwise we would never manage. I’ve had as many as 21 dogs here at one time, in various states of rehabilitation, so now I am feeling very relaxed and at-ease at last. Four seems like nothing in comparison. I feel like I’m on vacation!

Much love from a fellow dog lover!
Savita

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Carolena Sabah August 6, 2009 at 6:43 am

Good luck Savita, I am sure you will do just fine, you are quite intelligent. Have a great journey!
kisses

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Alexandra August 6, 2009 at 5:00 pm

Of course dear Savita, I wish you the very best. I am also sure you will be able to find what you are looking for, and to live ur dream. You very tallented smart kind. As a case, I am in a simillar position. But now as you I have more faith.
Love
Alexandra

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