For the Warrior of Light, there is no such thing as an impossible love.
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I don’t think there is such a thing as impossible love. Every person can be loved, every thing can be loved. It’s just a matter of finding that perspective within yourself. The quote is true.
Why do people have to make things so difficult? Why can’t we just accept and grow?
love is a bird on the wing, and marriage is a cage.
CAN U EXPLAIN HOW MARRIAGE IS A CAGE
you can’t always have what you want, – especially in love matters, i love him and he loves her and she just loves to look around….
i like to make things solid: have it in writing that i am loved and cared for, – preferably in a marriage contract – but matters of the heart tend not to be that solid. People change and hearts change and we weren’t feeling the same to start with. That makes it impossible to nail love down.
it is not love that is impossible, it is our desire to hold on to what we have and keep a firm grib that is.
I think that for us to decide whether nothing is impossible or not regarding love we have to know exactly what love is. How come it’s ok to say that love has many definitions, that everyone has their own way when it comes to love, that love might die but nobody says that about hate or disgust or any other negative emotion? I think that those who say that about love have either never lived love or do not know what it is and so they try to justify themselves by saying these things. When you really love something, its hard to just let go. This is natural for all humanity If you have a cat and you love it so much, would you hate it if it scratches you? would you hate it if it bites you? would you hate your mother or father? would you even stop loving them? If your answers are no, then you know that this is truely love. When you fall in love with someone, its pretty much the same. You don’t and can’t let go. I wouldn’t stop loving my husband even if he stabs me in the heart. Love is a strong and gripping emotion, its very close to obsession, and once you have it, you can’t let it go…
love beeba :)
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oh my god oh my god oh my god Cohello you seriously are a saviooooooooooooooooor omg U know this is the second time am logging on to your blog and believe me both the times i came the quote of the week was EXACTLY the one advice i wanted at that point in time Last week Oliver’s quote was displayed and it talked about how we wid our own hands end up distroying love and this week its this quoteeee Oh my god i just dunno what to say i am exactly at such a stage in life where i was at the verge of loosing one of the most beautyfulllllllllllllll relationships i ever had She is one of my closest friend actually much more than a friend and the base of our relationship was Alchemist I mean i had read Alchemist like ages before meeting herrr But then certain things happend in my life which kinda made me forget the importance and value of alchemist of omens of the language of the universe She brought all that back in my life, since the day i have met her am again seeing omens believing in them believing that miracles can happen in a flash of a seconnnnnd and believe me life is so much more simpler so much more beautyfuller so much more pure wid omens around coz omens somewhere somehow gives u a feeling that God is somewhere near all you need to do is look for his footprints and u wld find them there wid each and every step u take She got all His magic back in my life And i was almost at the verge of loosing her, so i was like in this huge scare that if we end even the feel of Alchemist would vanish all the pure feelings all d omens wld cease to exist if we end…and i was shit scared coz i cant live my life widout faith widout hope widout believing in God’s presance His presance is my biggest strength and i felt i would never be able to feel him again if she goes…so i was like obsessed wid the fear of loosing her loosing her totally and in that obsession i choked her ate up all her space forced her imposed myself on her i dunno i had gone insane though basically am not that kind of a person i belive that the people u love dnt need to be wid u 24/7 just the fact that they exist that they r there somewhere happy following their dreams is enough for u to survive not only for a lifetime but foreverrrrrr and i wanted that kind of feeling wid her i wanted to feel her presance even in her absance but i couldn’t coz i didn’t had faith in us i didn’t had faith in our relationship and all i wanted was for her to say she loves me she needs me that i matter to her in her life But i so realized in these past few weeks that no body no dammed body can give u this sureity It HAS to come from your own soullllll and the minute it would come u woduln’t care for how many infinite number of days you r unable to reach your loved ones I was trying to cage love but i had forgotten that love is a biiiiiiiiiiiiird if u try to stop its flight then its wings would be crippled and ultimately it WOULD wither away leaving u all scarred..Am so happy that i came here today reading this quote made me realize my mistake even more firmly and its kinda giving me this bliiissfull hopeeeeeeeeeeeeee that everything would be fine between us that the universe WOULD give us a second chance and this time we won’t let it goooooo I am seriously feeling a wave of hope wash over me at this one moment coz u know what unierse never punishes those who makes mistakes but yes it heavyly penalizes those who are unable to learn from their mistake Am glad that i made a mistake and today wen i accepted and realized it that yes change is okay it doenst mean feelings r changing all it means your perception your attitude towards life towards love changes and that too for the better..i dunno m just feleing so liiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight..coz i know a second chance wid destiny is waiting out there somewhere for me to grab it..and amm all set to grab it wid full passion and forceeeee and belief…now am just waiting for that one moment to reveal itself!
Thank You Cohellooooooooooooooo U have seriously seriouly always beeen my saviooooooooooooor Wenever i feel am caged in my own brain’s whilrpool from which i cant break free all i do is randomply open Alchemist and somehow the page that opens always speaks to my heaaaaaart Today i was so scared of opening Alchemist coz the very name rmeinds me of my this friend and it hurts me beyond belief that i might have lost her Thats y i came here and oh my god just like magic u again managed to talkt o my hearttttttttttt You Cohello r seriously mystic sometimes i feel God send u to us all to make us all believe in himmm
Smriti
Love is such a wonderful thing.. I believe that.. But, again, there are emotions that we confuse as love. When do we start loving a person, in the dating context? The initial thing has to be mere infatuation and physical attraction. I am in a relationship for the past 2 years, but right now, I cannot say that I am in love with him as I was earlier, but I do love him. He has a place in my heart even if this things do not work out.
The thing is, I have gone through alot with him. I have probably experienced the normal things that I should have experienced from my family. My family was a very dysfunctional one and I wasted too much of my youth looking for attention, and I got it from the wrong people, of course.
Then, one fine day, he came.. He made me feel wanted.. He made me feel beautiful and that boost up my confidence, which I never had, all my life. He taught me to drive, one of the biggest fears in my life and he made me independent..
However, one day, I realised that I was obsessed with him that I could hardly think or do anything else.. It was such an intense feeling that swallowed me.. and I was lost.. without him.. We moved in together.. We were happy, then we fought.. But neither of us wanted to let go.. We forgave each other’smistake because we had to.. Not because we wanted to.. He had no direction and I wanted him to have a direction, or at least follow mine.. But that never happened..
Then, we moved out, and I realised that live is so much more that those intense feelings.. It is just emotions..and emotions change all the time.. And now, I am rediscovering myself, without him.. I do love him because without him, I would not have gained so much of confidence and independence..
But now I am wondering, which is Love? The initial intense feelings I had for him or the rather settled feeling that I am feeling now? I am willing to let him go, and I no longer feel that I should own him. I just want him to be happy, wherever he goes and whatever he does. I appreciate and cherish all the good things he has done for me and due to that, I am a changed person, forever. I am guessing, it is now that I truly love him.. not then..
How could any love be impossible? No one owns it, or can take it from you. If you love, you love. Really very simple, to me.
I agree with you, I love because I love, and I cannot explain my love no matter how many times my man asks me…, because for me there is no explanation of why I love him, I just do. :)
Nothing is impossible when it comes to love, this sentence cannot be more meaningful. I have loved only once, and thankfully we have been joined in holy matrimony. We both lived in two different countries, fate brought us together as friends and things developed from there on. Everyone i knew was against our marriage since we are of a different social status and education. He, being unemployed, was looked upon as an inferior and nothing that met the eye seemed pleasing to any of my family members. Not to mention that i am 24 and he is yet 23. But we made it! we married and thank God we did, for there is nothing more beautiful than to share every moment of love, laughter, joy and pain with someone that you love. I gave up everything just for that, and it was well worth it. Nothing is more beautiful than waking up and hearing him breathing by my side, or looking at me with those eyes… After our marriage, I got fired and we are both unemployed. We barely have any furniture, we do not have that many clothes, we cannot dine at restaurants or the like, but we cannot recall when we were both happier. We are thankful for what we have, and what we have is more than enough. 3 years ago, i had a home, a car and everything necessary for life. One thing was missing, but that thing meant everything. A car and a home etc. could do nothing to fill that gap, but he has…
May everyone’s life be filled with the love and joy that I have found. God bless us all!
love forever!
beebopalula she is my baby.!
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True love only happens when we make it possible. When we deny the possibility then we deny love itself.
love is always and everything
luminita,
Might not be so funny if yr married to that father in law or that daughter in law hehe.
Love and admiration,
Heart
O amor como grandeza infinita e incontestável é, antes de mais nada, absoluto por si só. Eu amo alguém, mas necessariamente não precisa haver uma correspondência a esse amor. O amor é um ato que não requer o retorno a si. É dar, mas sem a imposição do receber. Se te amo e você me ama, acontece assim, a doação sublime do amor. É a maior dádiva recebida pelo ser humano: amar e ser amado pelo seu amor.
O amor é também amar a si mesmo, antes de tudo. É se querer bem e se respeitar como um ser iluminado que somos. Para amar alguém ou alguma coisa, é necessário que nos amemos mais, pois só ai podemos vislumbrar a verdadeira bênção do querer. Podemos amar a natureza que sempre nos amou, independente do que façamos com ela. Podemos amar o universo, independente de como o tratamos ou o ignoramos.
O sublime é o amor incondicional, que nos chega premiado de dádivas divinas.
Mas, se algum dia amar e for amado com o coração em chamas do querer, é bom saber que você é um ser abençoado e que esse amor brilha nos olhos o sentimento que vem da alma, independente de tempo, espaço ou pele.
Bjs!
Fica com Deus e na paz!
Like poetry! I hope you do not mind that I have posted Google’s translation of your comment. I think it should be shared, it makes me feel good and inspired.
“The infinite love and greatness is unquestionable and, above all, absolutely alone. I love someone, but need not necessarily be a match for that love. Love is an act that does not require the return to you. It is giving, but without the imposition of receiving. If you love and you love me, it happens once, the sublime gift of love. It is the largest donation received by the human being: love and be loved by your love.
Love is love yourself, before everything. It is well and want to be respected as an enlightened being who we are. To love someone or something, we must love more, because only then can we glimpse the true blessing of want. We love the nature that has always loved us, regardless of what do with it. We love the world, regardless of how the treat or ignore.
The sublime is the unconditional love, we get rewarded for divine gifts.
But if some day love and is loved with the heart in flames of wanting, it is good to know that you are being blessed and that love shines in your eyes the feeling that comes from the soul, regardless of time, space and skin.
Bjs!
Stay with God and peace!”
What is the word ‘Bjs’? It could not be translated. It is like the mystery of a great piece.
Just a few more examples of impossible love, and then I promise to quit;
A sober lady shouldn’t involve with a substance abusing man
A employed lady must not date an unemployed man
A non handicap male doesn’t love a handicapped female
A cousin cannot marry another cousin
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A father in law is forbidden to fall in love with his daughter in law.
Dear Heart,
I do not agree on the fourth one.In my family there has been this impossible love and they did stay together all their life,had two beautiful children and not as people say,not “normal”children.One of the daughters was a miss too.So no,I don’t see an impossible love here.
Lot of love
Candie
On that last one: wonder if you ever saw the movie “Damage” with Jeremy Irons & Juliette Binoche? Excellent film! Certainly underlines our cultural taboos on the subject – fall in love with you daughter-in-law, and unimaginable catastrophe strikes!
“Believe and act as if it were impossible to fail.” – Charles Kettering
I think the same theory can be extended into the arena of love: Love as though it were impossible to know loss – THEN even the “impossible love” is rendered possible.
I always LOVE what you say!
There is no such thing as impossible if I do not give power to that “word”. I can decide to love you now Mr. Coelho, by deciding it is possible and by then finding the ways within me and before acting contemplating the consequences of such passing to action. My ways of making that love possible are spiritually and physically, with the power of imagination and thoughts. But then, if I satisfy my need of loving, I must make sure for me, since that is part of me, that I do not harm the other one, you, with my power. So, I reflect again … For now, I prefer to love you spiritually! Jojo.
Hildegarde – I knew it – but now I know St. John said it.
Thanks ;o))
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