In true love you want other person’s good. In false love you want the other person.
In true love you want other person’s good. In false love you want the other person.
I believe that when we look for love courageously, it reveals itself, and we attract even more love. If one person really wants us, everyone does. But if we’re alone, we become even more alone. Life is strange…
Styled with arrariv
“Even if knew that I’ll never have you by my side, there is and there will be always peace and happiness in my heart because I know that I love you I one way or another and your happiness will help mine to become bigger.”
I agreed with your opinions ,liina ,”you won’t know the fish since you aren’t the fish ” ,the same is we can’t really help others no matter how much we love them!but when we’re guide by love we do the helping instant.that’s not we the people who were doing but the love itself doing!
let us do anything for others with our heart full of love and never mind the reward!
Yes, gaurry. True love asks for nothing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=veM0yXt0Guc
Carta a Paulo Coelho
Señor Coelho, primero que todo quiero felicitarlo por su increíble trabajo como escritor, lo admiro muchísimo de verdad. Me dirijo a usted en esta carta porque hace unos días, mientras leía su biografía escrita por Fernando Morais, descubrí algo de su pasado que me aterró, algo que me decepcionó y a lo que reaccioné con sufrimiento. Ese algo no lo pude sacar de mi cabeza y es la razón por la cual le escribo esta carta: fue la forma en que “conoció” (pues la conocía de tiempos anteriores) a su esposa Christina Oiticica. Según el libro, después de invitarla al cine, posterior a la cena de navidad, usted le apostó que besaría a una anaconda si ella le daba a cambio un beso en la boca. Lo logró, los transeúntes en la plaza vieron con asombro como besaba al animal y después a ella, y le aplaudieron. Terminaron teniendo relaciones esa noche.
Lo que me aterra es que, según el libro, Christina en ese momento estaba comprometida con un joven millonario, lo que significa que hubo engaño por parte de ella. Y aquí viene mi problema: el hecho de que, a partir de algo malo, como la infidelidad, pueda nacer algo bueno y hermoso, como lo es el amor entre 2 personas, un amor que lleva más de 30 años -si no me equivoco-, una relación afectiva al parecer increíble. La razón por la que esto me asusta tanto es que fui víctima de una situación similar, y me horroriza creer que algún mi día la mujer que será mi novia, ¡mi prometida!, se vaya con otro sujeto, y además desarrollen una vida felices juntos, llena de éxitos, como parece ser la vuestra. Me da un inmenso miedo pensar que alguien puede salirse así con la suya. Y horror sentí al imaginar que la gente aplaudía el beso que le plantó a Christina, un acto de deslealtad, pero, en realidad ellos no sabían que esa muchacha tenía un novio que no era usted. Sé que se cometen injusticias todos los días en todo el mundo, y sin embargo me cuesta creer -me niego a hacerlo- que los malos de la historia salgan victoriosos.
Le pido muchísimas disculpas de verdad, puesto que de seguro piensa que lo estoy juzgando, que lo estoy acusando de mil formas, y créame que no es esa mi intención, mi única intención es encontrar una respuesta a esta duda que tengo en la cabeza desde hace días cuando leí ese tramo del libro. Es verdad que no soy nadie para meterme en su vida privada, y tal vez sea un gran atrevimiento redactar esta carta, pero yo lo admiro a usted, he tenido una buena imagen de usted, y quiero mantenerla así. Entiendo que es humano y todos cometemos pecados, pero, mi gran miedo a sufrir por amor como todos lo hemos hecho es tan grande que necesitaba escribir estas palabras, y usted más que nadie entenderá la necesidad de escribir, de expresar en letras lo que sentimos.
Lamentablemente el libro no dice la situación que existía entre Christina y su prometido Vicente en ese entonces. Me gustaría pensar que el tal Vicente era alguien malo que hacía de Christina una mujer infeliz, y que tal vez eso la llevo a cometer la infidelidad. Me gustaría pensar, señor Coelho, que usted no estaba al tanto del compromiso de Christina, y que por eso actuó como lo hizo. En fin, me gustaría pensar cualquier cosa que justificara ese acto tan horrible como es la traición. Lamentablemente, de nuevo, en su biografía no se detalla ninguna de estas posibles situaciones, solo especifica lo más elemental.
Estoy seguro de que mucha gente en todo el mundo reaccionó como lo hice yo al leer esa parte del libro. De nuevo mis más sinceras disculpas, por este atrevimiento, pero me encantaría pedirle que contara, de algún modo, la verdadera situación que existía entre Chris y su prometido en ese entonces, si se amaban o no, si eran o no felices, si usted estaba al tanto de este compromiso. Me gustaría saber qué pasó con Vicente, cómo se tomó ese hecho, si sufrió o no, si le dolió en el alma que pasará eso.
Sin nada más que decir, de nuevo muy apenado y pidiéndole que me perdone, se despide su ferviente lector, que está en esta etapa difícil que es la adolescencia –mi edad es de 16 años-.
Nicolás Palacios
29 noviembre de 2009
Margarita, Nueva Esparta, Venezuela.
Nicolas_alejandro21@hotmail.com
I don’t really agree with this quote. Although it may be true once we’ve surpassed our moment of true pain…
I do believe it depends on the situation, for example what if your soulmate and beloved leaves you because of religion/culture/tradition? Is it truly for their own good or for the other? As we all know love has no face, no culture, religion, no race…love is love, a connection of the soul that goes beyond the stigmas of the human life.
I want my love, my twin flame, my soulmate, my bestfriend, because I believe that this is precisely the true search in life, there are no jobs, no careers, no amounts of wealth, or material things that at the end of the day compare to the energy and greatness that ones partner brings into those aspects of a truly mundane existence. Mundane because it truly is a routine… So in true love sometimes you want them, in true love you do want the best for them, centimeters apart or continents away… But at the end of it all true love is true love and who would give up true love if not the ones who don’t truly love?
This is probably the best definition of love that I’ve ever heard.
Definitely!
The best thing i like about this blog is that evryone is kind to evryone else.That’s love too.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rnFeNCx_dWQ
Sixpense None the Richer – I Need Love.
I left my conscience like a crying child
Locked the door behind me put the pain on file
Broken like a window I see my blindness now
I need love
Not some sentimental prison
I need god
Not the political church
I need fire
To melt the frozen sea inside me
I need love
Driving into town tired and depressed
Like a flare the streetlight bursts into an s.o.s.
Peace comes to my rescue I don’t know what it means
I need love
I need love
Not some sentimental prison
I need god
Not the political church
I need fire
To melt the frozen sea inside me
I need love
Thanks Liina! The perfect sentiment for this quote, and a beautiful song for a Sunday morning.
Love the line “I need love, not some sentimental prison”.
With love, Daniel
Wanting the other person’s good is like saying,looking at the human side of his being and appreciating the beauty that is created by your experience with that person. The fights that opened your eyes to understanding, forgiveness, humilty and wisdom. The moments of silence that thought you to trust him and yourself. And the intimacy that mirrors your own excitement and ecstacy. Wanting the person and false love, is like going to a department store and buying the image and not the dress. Often this kind of infatuation is mistaken for love.And when the person fails to deliver the image we projected in our heads then we realize ( if allowed) that we were not really inlove after all..
Sheelu-la-lee
where have you been? Haven’t seen you here for a while? You haven’t gone in the desert with a” Horse with no name”? I need to follow you up with a GPS – you know these things are like doing a Rally without your co-team member –
Hope you are okay?
Come back soon, we miss you here..
Keep on smiling…:)
Love and HUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGSSSSSSSSS
I wanted to tell you about George…and his new passport. My eyes :)nearly fell over when I saw him standing right in front.Something to perk me up all right.It toned down the coughing that’s for sure… I tell you what – I needed one of these straight away…Nespresso ..what else?
You do know he is also a Messenger of Peace. Makes you want to make peace straight away does not it? I did read somewhere he has a lovely place on the Lac Majeur in Italy. How is your Italian going Sheelu-la? Mine is improving by the minuti.
Do you fancy an E.R.trip down there as a free lance journo? I am sure he’ll grant you an interview straight away.That’s the optimist in me. I’ll type the questions for you and come along as the Secretary okay? ooh ooh ooh sheelu-la
Please don’t forget to ask him if he has ever had a pomegranate spa?
Charlize Theron is also a Messenger of Peace – that’s for Ady, Daniel and Paul VA and Dr Den and all the other WOLS. We like to share don’t we?
AH IH HEE HA.
and the baguette of the day was :a Pagnol – keeping up with the movie industry….what else? -
:)
Hey MC… what are you smokin…?;) Now I know who the pseudonym “and thatmakes it 22″ is ;) although, your style is unmistakable, I’m sometimes slow on the pickup… Enjoy your day navigating… PvA
My Dearest Paul, i really do not believe that Sheelu is the same person with ‘that makes it22′ , possibly a big misunderstanding here … Also, Sheelu is Sheelu/la/le because the endings -lu and -le are more sweet, not for any other matter, and as far as I know she has never been ‘offensive’ or ‘rude’ (that makes it 22 pseudonym) or ‘exceeded limits’, she is a wol here , of the most wonderful hearted ones and a friend..
Or Maybe it’s time for me to go on another planet.. possibly I have made the misunderstanding or I am confused..
Love and Graditude
Annie
Dear Annie,
No dear, I meant that I believe MC is TMI22, but she won’t tell ;)
Love, Paul
Hey Pva…it’s called passive smoking syndrome – gitanes and gauloises and american blonde brands (with the filter) as well –
Have a nice week end too…don’t smoke unless its a peace pipe one.:)
http://www.un.org/sg/mop/
The messengers of Peace!
You comment, dear Marie-Christine is a riddle.
Well if you speak of … George Cloney’s villa.. indeed it is in Como! Worth … learning … Italian! One thing that I do not understand; since you have so many things to share with Sheelu-la ly and what you are saying sounds … GREEK TO US, why don’t you send direct emails, so that you will avoid misunderstandings with the rest of us?
Have a nice … Sunday afternoon, not at all boring this time, dearest Paulo Coelho.
LOVE,
Thelma xxx
Dearest Thelma,I am really worried about you.I see the little child within you has been lost somewhere.
Have you been doing too much rehearsing lately?. Sounds like it.
I suggest you might need a well deserved rest then.
Your comment sounded so much like DOUBLE DUTCH. So sorry to hear you going through that crisis, hope you get well soon.
I am sending lots of love your way and please please keep on smiling I don’t want to see you in a bad state ever again, promise?
:):):)
HUGS AND I STILL LIKE YOUR TEASING. YOU WOL!
Marie-Christine XXX
http://www.youtube.com/watch?=urh3zos090o&feature=related
Savoir aimer – Florent Pagny
Knowing how to love – Florent Pagny
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgAurilSDXQ&feature=fvw
Yo Yo Ma!
Another messenger of U.N. peace. So you have the whole catalogue now, dear Marie-Christine.
Sorry to make you …. worry about me!!!! Norhing to worry about!! You maybe are facing .. evil and project it into other’s life! So take care and enjoy life which is for everyone on the Planet a .. present! Do not spoil it with .. darkness.
Regards from beautiful, sunny Cyprus. And remember … Christmas is coming. He was born for us and … we have … crucified HIM and do it .. everyday still…
Take care.
LOVE,
Thelma xxx
Dear Mari Christine, sorry to interrupt, but What crisis ? and what bad state??? Thelma is strong shining and exact (without misunderstandings) as an arrow on the target, and big big hearted as Love!!
Love and Graditude
Annie
The URL contained a malformed video ID.
This is what came out from your video/link, Marie-Christine!!!
Please, Sufi, check out!!
Savoir Aimer or … Savoir Vivre? I still remember some French from the school!!
LOVE,
Thelma xxx
You little devil,…I had already checked the catalogue a long time ago dearest Thelma, where have you been? Not on this blog obviously.
I hope you have sent your letter for Xmas and keep on shining I am glad you are on the way to recovery from the… dark side.It happens to all of us from time to time.
Have a lovely sunny Cyprus day. Keep on smiling>3
Take good care of yourself.
Love
Marie-Christine
XXX :)
Dearest Annie,
I just love your comment – your perception is always spot on! -
You are such a good sport!
Love and gradidude.
Marie Christine xxx :)
“LOVE IS ALL THERE IS”
Thelma – the title of the song is
Savoir Aimer by Florent Pagny – I think you will like it -
I am not sure what the problem is with You tube it happens at regular interval with me. Give it a go just type the title and watch.
Love and :)
I believe that there is just one kind of love-the true love..rest are just compromises or our needs….but is it true that love happens just once?
The first is the way of “Give” and the second is the way of “Get.” Hence, “To Give is better than to Receive.”—but that should be tempered with “Be ye as wise as serpents. . . .”
According to Shakespeare, never a false love turned true…. but many a true love turned false…
Eventually we realize that EVERYTHING has always been, is and will always be because of love
; )
very true…
Thank you Pandora!
Oh, I love those … scars of … true love turned …. false!
They have made me be, who I am today: LOVE, Thelma xxx
and so it is
Well I believe in true love and I’m locked up in a psychiatric ward – for real. How’s that for the way the world really is.
Not bad place to be Shane if your ward has an internet connection too !
shane u may believe in true love, but before that know true love ! it is about giving, not taking ( in giving u will also receive but that is not teh point )and it’s not forced giving.
i hope u are released soon from that ward, and in the menatime have u heard about meditation, it’s like observing one’s own mind, turning your focus, on your own mind.
love
aditya
Thanks Aditya, To be honest I didn’t really like you at first but thanks for those words of support, my opinion has changed.
Shane.
Ps I kind of smuggled the internet in. .’-)
Hi Shane! Your words show how a few … kind words can change our opinion and world!! So are some hard, hateful words, gestures and glances: we create evil and enemies! Be alert and smile.
May we always create Paradise and Light with our ..creative mind and words.
LOVE,
Thelma xxx
True, and it helps if you realize: “Be still and know that you are loved” (Eileen Caddy)
your thought make me feel that human life is a vast source of spirituality in this world. now if the allmighty resides within us, then why human life seems very negligible to his course of destruction and redemption????
destruction n redemption is part of us ..A PART OF US, HUMANS,nothing seperate 4m us so bad has to be there to make us see good and “almighties” too created destruction n fought wars…SO they are a piece of ourselves…
Благодарю Господа, Великую Мать Богиню за ваш оструй ум. Учитель, благословите меня на мою работу.
even if I amn’t in love ,I don’t wish the bad things happend to the people around me ,that’d make me feel sad .and when I am in love I always wished so much that the good things can happened to my lover ,but that’s not in my power .I take paulo’s opinon is :if you truely love one person ,you loved the real face whether his good face or bad face ,if your love is false or your love to others is for you love yourself ,you’d build the love upon your own fancy at your lover ,then someday this love only hurt back to yourself.but the fact is :no matter how you tried ,you ‘d find your lover is the mirrow to yourself .you aren’t loving the other,you are loving yourself or your ideas about others ,the love is still a love ,but the love is a hurt to yourself and the love is very easily became to hate .sorry for myself ,I always can’t see the person’s true face and when I see it I always can’t really love him or I always wish he can do more for me but I always feel failure i know it’s my own problem .but I ‘d try and try not for loving others but for learning how to love myself then i ‘d know how to love others how to accept the real face of others
Good point Gaurry! I think sometimes we fall in love with a fantasy about the person, not the person themselves, and when something happens to reveal the true nature of the fantasy, then someone is headed for a fall!
I’ve noticed that when people are forming a relationship, romantic or otherwise, there often comes a point when barriers are dropped and they begin to exchange stories that reveal positive and negative aspects of their nature. It’s like saying “if you read between the lines, you’ll see who I really am”.
The problem is love is blind – sometimes it only sees what it wants to see, and sometimes it just doesn’t see faults because it is irrelevant. Eyes wide open is important in love, not so you can judge, so you can see.
With love, Daniel
In love you don’t wish the other’s person bad to happen on him.. even when the whis(p)erer is angry or wants to explode on the other..
True love is when always you want the other person’s good… always…
Love and Graditude
Annie
May God bless you always, Swan-Annie!
You are right regarding …. explosions!!! In my life whenever someone was angry about ’something’ and was … shouting at me, I was always saying : I can ‘hear’ you. But, if you need to express your nerves I am not your ‘boxing sack’! There is the … wall and knock your head on it!! Sharp tongue but … effective!!
If our ‘loved’ ones do not ‘respect us and our peace’, who will????
SILENCE is the language of the angels or as Paulo Coelho says the language of GOD.
THINK before YOU SPEAK and THINK before YOU ACT.
LOVE,
Thelma xxx
So Beautiful Thelma! Love you!!!
Love you too, beautiful HOPE!
LOVE,
Thelma xxx
explosions, and earthquakes, and volcanoes…
You are using your sword very right Mamma <3 thank you for being an ally <3, always there
Love you
Love and Graditude
Swannie
Dearest Annie, Swan, you made me smile with the ‘thank you for being an ally’!;-]
I was talking with a friend once, expressing some ideas and at the end he turned to me and told me: I wouldn’t want to be your ENEMY, ever!!;-] Not that I am hard but because ‘my hands are clean’ and always state the facts and Laws! I love justice, peace and balance.
LOVE you too,
LOVE,
Thelma xxx
Thanks Thelma….ur ideas r for a life time…
Thank you Aarthi. Take care and be a Warrior fighting the GOOD FIGHT.
LOVE,
Thelma xxx
I want your good…always!
I want your good, always too, my darling Hope <3
Very true, Annie. If the good we wish for them comes from ’seeing that there are other shoes and people who walk in them’, and if whis ‘wishing of good’ does not come from our own perspectives, hopes, desires.
Because sometimes people think they act out of love, and saying that they wish the best for the other, doing what they do. In fact they are doing it out of their own ideas, not because they’re thinking for the other person.
If we love, the distinction becomes irrelevant. Then we won’t have to think before speaking or acting, but we are guided by love. And love does it for us.
But the thought is right – we shouldn’t use our anger, or any negative moods/feelings on other people. We shouldn’t drop the ‘bomb’ if we ourselves are the ones who feel these intense feelings.
Be well,
L.
Thank you dear Liina, I agree with both parts of your post <3
Reading this I just remembered something I have only learned quite recently – that instincts don’t always provide the answers, and it is so simple to just ask. “What can I do for you right now that would help”. These words have served me well lately.
And true love is also when you can see that what the other person is doing or saying is because they want your good, even (especially!) when they are challenging you in some way.