The Four Forces

by Paulo Coelho on December 2, 2010


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EN ESPANOL CLICAR AQUI: Las cuatro fuerzas
EM PORTUGUES CLICAR AQUI: As quatro forças

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Father Alan Jones says that building our soul requires Four Invisible Forces, namely love, death, power and time. It is necessary to love because we are loved by God. It is necessary to be conscious of death in order to understand life better. One has to fight in order to grow – but without falling into the trap of the power that we obtain in doing so, because we know that such power is worth nothing. And lastly, it is necessary to accept that our soul – although eternal – is at this moment caught in the web of time, with all its opportunities and limitations.

First Force: Love

Rabbi Iaakov’s wife was always looking for an excuse to argue with her husband. Iaakov never answered her provocations.
Until one night when, during a dinner with some friends, the rabbi had a ferocious argument with his wife to the surprise of all at table.
“What happened?” they asked. “Why did you break your habit of never answering?”
“Because I realized that what bothered my wife most was the fact that I remained silent. Acting in this way, I remained far from her emotions. My reaction was an act of love, and I managed to make her understand that I heard her words.”

Second Force: Death

As soon as he died, Juan found himself in a very beautiful place, surrounded by all the comfort and beauty that he had dreamed of.
A figure dressed in white came up to him and said, “You are entitled to anything you want.”
Enchanted, Juan did everything he had dreamed of during life. After many years of pleasure, he sought out the figure in white. He said that he had experienced everything and that now he needed a little work to make him feel useful.
“That’s the only thing I cannot get for you,” said the figure in white.
“But I’ll spend eternity dying of boredom! I’d much rather be in hell!”
“And where do you think you are?”

Third Force: Power

“I’ve spent a good part of the day thinking about things that I should not think about, desiring things that I should not desire, planning to do things that I should not do.”
The master pointed to a plant and asked the disciple if he knew what it was.
“It’s a belladonna. It can kill you if you eat the leaves. But it can’t kill you just by looking at it. Likewise, negative desires can cause no harm – if you don’t let yourself be seduced by them.”

Fourth Force: Time
A carpenter and his apprentices were traveling through the province of Qi in search of building materials. They saw a giant tree; five men holding hands could not encompass its girth, and its crown reached almost to the clouds.
“Let’s not waste our time with this tree,” said the master carpenter. “It would take us forever to cut it down. If we wanted to make a ship out of that heavy trunk, the ship would sink. If we tried to use it to build a roof, the walls would have to be specially reinforced.”
The group continued on its way. One of the apprentices remarked, “Such a big tree and no use to anyone!”
“That’s where you’re wrong,” said the master carpenter. “The tree was true to its own destiny. If it had been like all the others, we would have cut it down. But because it had the courage to be different, it will remain alive and strong for a long time.”

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Minsun Kim December 5, 2010 at 5:19 am

To be diffrent can both positive and negative…
But as long as he or she is strong enough, right side can outweight the other side. To me, both are not easy, though..

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Loulie Fox December 5, 2010 at 1:19 am

Such inspirational blogs, Paolo – - I feel blessed to have found you.

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Elisio Miranda de Oliveira December 4, 2010 at 10:28 pm

Oi Eu sou seu fã e li todos seus livros
E tenho muita admiraçao por voce
só que não consigo seguir se blog me ajuda!!!

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SGeorge December 4, 2010 at 9:03 pm

One should never wait to find Right words to express true Emotions,they’ll always come short.Most stirring moments are mostly Silent..

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LIBERTAD December 4, 2010 at 8:46 pm

PAULO GRACIAS GRACIAS POR EXISTIR

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Mary Dorgan December 4, 2010 at 8:08 pm

We can only allow ourselves to be what we already are or not allow it.

If I am the great tree, I can only fight against myself or embrace my own nature.

Although I may appear alone. I am never alone, for I help others to grow and they acknowledge me and give me purpose.

much love and appreciation

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olimpia December 4, 2010 at 7:45 pm

cuanto bien hace a mi alma ,leer estas fraces , cuanta sabiduria…GRACIAS.

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Joe December 4, 2010 at 7:07 pm

But arent we here to experience all, negative as well as positive, isnt it the will of the soul to experience all after it knew all ?

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Shashi December 5, 2010 at 8:27 am

The reason we are here is to understand the following:
1. Who are we
2. Who is God
3. What is our relationship with God.

This is called to understand: Relation, process and Goal.
The ultimate goal is to attain the Love of God, which is eternally there in all of us, but it’s dormant right now, dut o ignorance. With proper process and knowledge(self realisation) we can awaken the true love and understand our true identity as soul and not as body.

Regards.

Tarun December 4, 2010 at 6:22 pm

All four are very much true and practical. And you strengthened my attitude of feeling that things appear the way you look at it. Hats off to you :)

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Teca December 4, 2010 at 5:23 pm

Simplesmente, fantástico!!!!!!

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Peggy Nolan December 4, 2010 at 4:50 pm

“Likewise, negative desires can cause no harm – if you don’t let yourself be seduced by them.”

This is such a profound yet simple concept…I wish more people understood this and practiced detaching themselves from their own negative desires, thoughts, and self-talk.

Thank you for this!!

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Ansh December 4, 2010 at 3:27 pm

but .. silence can never be the answer to a question …but emotions are… :)

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Maria December 4, 2010 at 3:15 pm

You always make my day Paulo. Thank you for the inspiring words :)) Love you !!

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gypsylee December 4, 2010 at 2:50 pm

I really enjoyed this.
Thank you! and good day!

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Jamie December 4, 2010 at 1:24 pm

Sir, I’d like to thank you, for somehow, in your words I find direction. it helps me how to solve my issues about myself. :) Thank You very much :) may God always Bless You :)

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aksh December 4, 2010 at 12:52 pm

“That’s where you’re wrong,” said the master carpenter. “The tree was true to its own destiny. If it had been like all the others, we would have cut it down. But because it had the courage to be different, it will remain alive and strong for a long time.””

TREE STORY

This teh master said and teh tree suddenly felt happy and sad too. Happy because he had been enjoying life for so long and now with master carpenters belssings he will continue to enjoy his existance much longer, but memeories of his olden days, brought back the time he had decided to be diffrent. As the great author paulo had said in his cycling race metaphor ( it was a litereate tree ), he was not alone in the begining, many like minded tress who were bored ‘being same’ had decided to be diffrent, to grow faster than others. Of the many now only one other tree had remained like that, rest all were gone, long gone. A lot of these fast growing trees were cut down by the same master carpenter when he had come earlier to look for wood, at that time most trees of this jungle were short growing at lesisurly pace, after a forest fire. But these young daredevils had grown more and were then as big as the rest of teh trees now. After this, a few years later a great hurricane had come, and in that all but two such long trees remained, one was this nameless tree and the other some distance. He remembered all his ‘freinds’ and said a silent prayer for them.

had it been worth it, yes it had thought the tree, for in his success in achiving what many freinds set out to achive, in a way teh soul of those old daredevil tress, now long gone had been satiated, he was standing tall, not alone but with and on behalf of all those ‘freinds’.

while our brave tree was thinking thus, a group of modern, scietific, wall street listed, timber firm with chainsaws and big machines were marching down near teh forest and they were eyeing this tall tree which was visible from such afar, with very keen interest.

love

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Shikoh December 4, 2010 at 12:45 pm

and who said love is only reflected in one way? it funny how we are always complaining by the end of a days work that we are so exhausted yet if we end up in heaven we shall have almost no work to do but bumming… Thank you Paulo

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suquest December 4, 2010 at 12:44 pm

Dear Paolo and All,
Not a DIRECT answer, comment to/on what I have just read,
FEEL deeply about, relate to, etc. from you Paulo…all,
atually does ‘invite/inspire’ me to mention a book I have
almost finished reading and find highly INTRUIGING, FASCINATING and to a great extent, soul-wise, ENLIGHTENING
and factually in-explicable as to how I (my soul) EXPERIENCES the ‘case-histories’ of …..
Title book: “Journey of Souls” by Michael Newton.
I can only ‘speak’ for myself, obviously ha-ha and that
said….I LIVE in and am AWARE of many REALITIES, the physically manifested and many others of a different DIMENSION or whatever you/I want to ‘label’ them with….
No more to add or say…..
Enjoy all, have a good weekend and try to be/remain true
to yourself, ‘at home’ with and connected to your own and all souls, grounded and at peace with THE WHOLE….
LOVE Susan

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Jo December 4, 2010 at 12:35 pm

Thank you. Those words are an incredible and timely gift right now.

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Agnieszka Dorn December 4, 2010 at 12:26 pm

So my definition of four forces:

Love:
The worst in life is to be ignored by someone you like.
Feeling useless is the HELL.

Death:
So that you can feel valuable and useful you need LOVE of the others.

Power:
Don`t waste your time on things which are not good for you – it costs only TIME.

Time:
Swim against the stream and you will be someone special – required a lot of POWER.

Wow, if you effectuate this to your life you are a powerful human being – so let`s start.

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Jamie December 4, 2010 at 1:25 pm

I agree :)

meliza December 4, 2010 at 12:15 pm

i was so inspired and i love the force of power most,it is something that i will always bring with me any where and any time i go,and who ever i am with…it will always remind me that i have a power with in my self to make things better for my life and for the sake of others and most especially in the name of love…

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Nausheen December 4, 2010 at 11:47 am

Thnak u…it enchanted me…I am smiling…thanks 2 u:)

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Armelle December 4, 2010 at 10:49 am

Thank you, it will enlighten my day and my life ;)

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Sandy Baiey December 4, 2010 at 10:38 am

Profound!
I needed to be reminded!
Thank you very much. Xx

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Mazarine December 4, 2010 at 10:05 am

lovely.. I just smiled at every para.. thank you!

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Annanta December 4, 2010 at 9:50 am

paulo has been my source of inspiration since last year when i started reading him. I got his name out of nowhere ( nobody recommended me or i even didnt hear about him ). and suddenly he has become a part of my life, encouraging me in every steps of life. The little stories and quotes he posts make me enjoy the life better. I seem to be a different person ( at least to myself) with a lot of optimism and enthusiasm inside.
Thank you very much Paulo for all this. Hope to read from you soon!!!

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Durga December 4, 2010 at 9:48 am

Paulo, you have always been inspirational. I would like you to be called my “Godfather”. I’m not a believer of God, but you have changed my views now. Your blogs too is guiding me through my ups and down. Thank you for everything!!!

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Ansh December 4, 2010 at 3:22 pm

nice words…:)

Eliana December 4, 2010 at 9:24 am

Very interesting post expressing a truth we sometimes forget about. Thank you, to remind us to think about everything that happen in our lives and around us.
Eliana

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Anisha December 4, 2010 at 9:18 am

Waoo.. we’v got a 4 in 1 lesson today.. nice to read sir..

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ishita December 4, 2010 at 8:56 am

its hard to grasp all u flow…. but its filled with such knowledge and motivation… that its like an automatic force which drives me to your path everytime…. great works!

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gaurry December 4, 2010 at 8:45 am

In trues ,the last story always wonder me :will we become useless to others just for we want to be true to our own destiny ?and what is our destiny ?for living eternity ?one very longevous man said :my son and daughter have been gone ,each time my grandchildren come to visit me ,their eyes were telling :hell ,why is the old hell still living ?

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Zaher Houary December 4, 2010 at 8:16 am

love u man u are always right i like this “But because it had the courage to be different, it will remain alive and strong for a long time.” because i am different and not stopping being different :)

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hadeel December 4, 2010 at 8:03 am

great word’s …. It’s a good way to start my day …. Am a new fan of u coelho but u owned my soul

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jercyl hope December 4, 2010 at 7:24 am

thanks for sharing ur beautiful thoughts Mr. Paulo…. more power to u!

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Pank December 4, 2010 at 7:20 am

Hey Paul,

I’ve been reading your blog since quite a while now.This is one of the best !!! I must say….I would like to share something with you…need your suggestion .

Thanks !

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Nicolaie Stoian December 4, 2010 at 7:18 am

We only can see what the world mirror to us.
Giving love? yes, but from the SOURCE and without attachement
Thinking of death? of course, but of the death of the EGO; if we acheive the death of the EGO in this lifetime,we will feel and touch our imortality.
Power? the real power si power with (onnes) not power over (ego)
Time? We perceive time becouse of our memory (past) and our immagination (future) but the key is to live in the momment and be present; since you acheive the living in now, you will understand that there is no time like we perceive it, but only absolute; everithing is happening on the very momment; the past, present and future are all the same, hear and now.

Divine Love and Gratitude,
Unitiy in Diversity

Nicolaie

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tara December 4, 2010 at 7:41 pm

that was so profound :)

randa December 4, 2010 at 7:00 am

thank u

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shveta December 4, 2010 at 6:53 am

so true …. sometimes all we need is love …

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grace December 4, 2010 at 6:02 am

you help feed my soul paulo.
this journey is enlightening & more meaningful because of you. thanks!

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Dhivya Raju December 4, 2010 at 6:01 am

love is more important among the four forces,love is precious,love is peace,love gives happiness,love is life,love is soothing,love give stability,loves makes confident,love is god, god is love, this cant be got anywhere but its spread everywhere…universe

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cecille December 4, 2010 at 5:59 am

as always..thank you.

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Ariun December 4, 2010 at 5:38 am

Always like your wisdom Paolo. Thanks for sharing.

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mahzabin December 4, 2010 at 5:25 am

Amazing as always.

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James Stygles December 4, 2010 at 5:17 am

Some people I imagine have all four forces working for them and surplus force to boot. Is the aquisition of these forces natural, spiritual, by chance or developed? If it was developed how would you develop it in others? Or does everyone obtainthese forces in their own way or others not at all?

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Austin Dmello (India" December 4, 2010 at 4:57 am

just love the way u talk abt various things… Ur boook “alchemist” was a life changer… Addd to that these small valuable stories… Mr. Coelho.. U rock

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Ganesh December 4, 2010 at 4:45 am

Hi Really good story. I liked especially the fourth force, Time. And it had been narrated very much good. Yes its true if you think, implement and live differently without following blind. this difference in thoughts and opinion, keeps you live each day and with this each day is different for you from your previous days.

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Danielle Silva December 4, 2010 at 4:09 am

Voce e o melhor profesor do mundo. Brigada por ter compartilhado a sua visao do mundo. E maravilhoso e me ajuda muito em meu dia a dia. Agredeco muito sua compaixao e intendimento das coisas mais complexas, mas agredeco mas, o nosso Senhor, Deus, quem deu esse abilidade a voce para compartilhar com o resto do mundo. Como voce diz em seu comentario acima… Se voce tem um pingo de duvida se voce ira ao ceu ou inferno, pode acreditar que voce esta seguindo o que Deus planejou para voce e voce esta abencoado em todo que faz. Brigada por todo, Paulo!! Um abracao, beijo.

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abhishek December 4, 2010 at 3:33 am

Sir You are genius. Hats off to you.

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Carmen Novoa December 4, 2010 at 3:15 am

Beautiful! inspiring and it seems to easy, but it is not, we need to work hard inside us.
Thanks for the words, always so wise and just on time, when needed to be heard.

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Kris December 4, 2010 at 2:47 am

I so like the way the power of Time is explained. WE hold the perfect timing, it is within us to become exceptional to grow in a very unique way, to be respected, be understood and to be a good person along with these we’ll know the reason of our existence. So its a matter of waiting and while waiting doing the best for us to be molded perfectly, just like that tree untouched and destined to live forever.

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