Benefits of spiritual partnership

Paulo and Gary


by Gary Zugav

The benefits of spiritual partnership are the highest goals that you can reach for, such as freedom from fear, and also the most grounded, pragmatic, and useful tools that you can develop, such as how to use power struggles to grow spiritually. All the benefits of spiritual partnership are interconnected, and each leads to others. Here are some.

Love for Yourself. Love is a state of being. It is not an emotion or response. You cannot create Love, but you can experience it, and when you do it envelopes you. You cannot love one person or one thing more than another. Love makes all things precious, including you. It eliminates all constraints. Love is without limits, conditions, judgments, and hidden agendas.

Meaning and Purpose. Traveling in the direction that your soul wants to go fills you with meaning. Traveling in other directions diminishes meaning in your life. Traveling in the opposite direction empties your life of meaning. The intentions of harmony, cooperation, sharing, and reverence for Life take you exactly where your soul wants to go—toward people, Life, health, fulfillment instead of satisfaction, and joy instead of happiness.

Real Courage. Courage enables action when a frightened part of your personality is active. Some courageous actions are noble, such as risking injury to save another, and some are not, such as attempting to impress others (pursue external power) by doing something dangerous. Fear generates courage when you challenge frightened parts of your personality in order to be accepted, admired, or successful. Love generates courage when you challenge a frightened part of your personality in order to benefi t another or to create authentic power. That is real courage.

Ability to Use Dramas and Tragedies to Grow Spiritually. “Dramas” and “tragedies” are experiences of frightened parts of the personality. When you say, “What a tragedy this is!” you can more accurately say, “What a fear this is!” When you are immersed in a drama around you or within you, you can detach from it and recognize it as an experience of fear.

Compassion for Yourself and Others. If you are unable to distinguish between frightened and loving parts of your personality, you will not be able to distinguish between frightened and loving parts of other personalities either. A “passion to protect the environment,” for example, may come from love or from fear. When I stood in clearcuts that extended as far as I could see and hated the timber industry, my passion came from fear (powerlessness). When I am grateful for Mother Earth, my life, and awed by the exquisitely beautiful and delicate ecology around me, my passion comes from love.

(Condensed from “Spiritual Partnership”. To read more about each item, please CLICK HERE)

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  1. Linda Valles says:

    I have read Gary’s books .I loved them I wish I had spiritual partner!

  2. Linda Valles says:

    I have read Gary’s books .I loved themm I wish I had spiritual partner!

  3. maria gil gala says:

    Que pena que la web este en Ingles!!

  4. maria gil gala says:

    Me gustaria compra el libro de Gary Zugav, ¿donde lo puedo conseguir?

    1. Paulo Coelho says:

      seguramente en amazon

  5. Elaine says:

    I read this this morning and thought about this post:

    As we live on earth we must walk in faith, nothing doubting. When the journey becomes seemingly unbearable, we can take comfort in the words of the Lord: “I have heard thy prayer, I have seen thy tears: behold, I will heal thee.” Some of the healing may take place in another world. We may never know why some things happen in this life. The reason for some of our suffering is known only to the Lord. — J. E. Faust

  6. Que lindo artículo. Me encantó. El amor por ti mismo es el primero que tenemos que practicar.

  7. Almost half finished listening to this book. Inspired!
    Especially moved by the tenderness, nurturing, and could visualize the analogy of the cave, coming out of the cave, living in the light.

    Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself. – Rumi
    There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unchanged to find the ways in which you yourself have altered. – Nelson Mandela

    Thankyou, Love to All,
    Jane

  8. Pandora says:

    I was reading William Blake’s : Jerusalem, The Emanation of The Giant Albion the other day, and this passage caught my eye:

    In Heaven Love begets Love: but Fear is the Parent of Earthly Love!
    And he who will not bend to Love must be subdu’d by Fear.

    His work was visionary, although he was entirely misunderstood during his lifetime and the then critics thought his work the ravings of a madman, but it didn’t deter him and sixteen years later with over 100 illuminated illustrated plates, acting wholly from Love, with very little support he fulfilled his dream … and is now immortalised as a genius.

    He created Love through his work, as you and anyone that has the courage to share the genuine love of their work for the benefit of mankind.

    Thank you.

  9. Kealan says:

    One of this things I have learned recently is that it is better to have experienced the search of spirituality, understanding, wisdom etc. in life – then to have never set sail on the journey.

  10. Sonia Vianna Landeo says:

    Paulo! Nessa foto você está simplesmente lindo, de portas abertas da alma, que estranha sensação, de me emocionar, enfim…

  11. LoveM says:

    With each partnership
    One needs to be conscious of
    What Sea one’s sailing
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    1. Annie says:

      Aye Aye captain
      wonderful to be on board
      the Sea is always here
      awaiting
      to see our ship get on shore

      Love and Gratitude
      Annie

    2. LoveM says:

      Shipmate Annie..
      Gla’d you are aboard
      Who’d go to sea without you
      They’d be all at sea…
      Sea Sea Senorita..

  12. LoveM says:

    Go on…have a hug
    It brings your hearts together
    So deeply touching

    Riding donkey mind
    To the door of your heart then
    Alight to enter

    We are on the crest
    Of this astonishing wave
    Creature consciousness

  13. LoveM says:

    Warm wind in your sail
    On the sea of consciousness
    Chubby cheerful heart.

    …… /| )
    -__/ | ♥)___
    | .. o .. o .. /
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

  14. Que lindo artículo. Lleno de esperanza

  15. RaRo Orar says:

    It’s a double Masters.
    I am back to studies. :)

  16. Corina says:

    But what is to be done when LOVE triks you?
    Can GOD let someone to play with souls?

    1. Danielle says:

      I believe God does not ever let someone play with your soul. We allow people to do that ourselves. But when we are strong enough, courageous enough to draw a line and say enough is enough, God is always there to guide us further on our way to love. You see, I believe, and I can say this with the experiece I have, that there is someone for everyone in this world. And fear not, because the one you are supposed to be with has already been born…every day, every second drwas you closer to each other…until the right time to meet (again).

  17. Marie-Christine says:

    ‘Notre corps est une mini societe en equilibre
    …c’est de cet equilibre que depend notre sante, …Le corps peut donc se concevoir comme une societe en equilibre.
    ..’La maladie rappelle les conflits sociaux, les crises les guerres et les mutations…
    Apprehender la maladie comme une sagesse nous permettrait de comprendre que les troubles du monde ne seraient que des maladies porteuses de solutions.’ Dr Olivier Soulier

    ‘O tempo nao transforma o homen,
    O poder da vontade nao transforma o homen.
    O omor transforma.’ Paulo Coelho

    Le temps ne transforme pas l’homme
    Le pouvoir de volonte ne transforme pas l’homme
    L’amour transforme.
    Oui.
    Merci.
    Avec amour
    Marie-Christine

    1. Marie-Christine says:

      Thank you Mita
      We can learn a lot from Mother Earth and the ecology. I believe it is a good school
      Our body certainly can feel the effect of it
      With love
      Marie-Christine

      It is all explained in the word Maladies for me
      Maladies – mal a dies
      Mal upside down is L”ame – the soul’
      l.’ame dies – the soul dies

  18. Psalmbody says:

    P(e)ace and Love, partners.

  19. Obrigada Paulo.
    Tenho aprendido MUITO com vc!
    Às vezes a rotina diária nos impede de pensar em coisas tão simples, porém tão importantes e tão grandiosas. E é através de você que eu consigo resgatar essa magia que a vida insiste em querer apagar. Nunca deixe de escrever.
    Estou ansiosa para ler seu novo livro!
    Bjos,Paula.

  20. heart says:

    While the Soul to me has to do with our mental/emotional capacities Spirit has to do with our capacity to be in contact with the Divine. Spiritual Partnership therefore is to me any commuted relationship taking the partner towards Divine encounters..

  21. Marie-Christine says:

    I believe we do not need to look further than our body to find where our fears and loving parts of our personality lies.

    ‘Our body, a mini-society in equilibrium
    From this equilibrium depends our good health.
    The body can then been seen as a society in equilibrium.
    The illness reminds us of social conflicts , crisis, wars and transformations.
    To understand illness as a wisdom would allow us to understand that the troubles of the world could only be illnesses that carry solutions.’ Dr Olivier Soulier

    and transformation happens with love.

    Marie-Christine

    1. mita says:

      HI! Marie Christine your example of body with society is very much reasonable. . I get fresh cool clear smell of mother earth from your writting. Keep it up ,Thank you .

  22. Marie-christine Grimard says:

    Yes my passion comes from Love
    Always
    Each day I have lived
    Every day i Will live
    Since the first second and after the last
    My passion for Life comes from Love
    Love is my path my breath and my blood .

  23. Marie-christine Grimard says:

    Yes my passion comes from Love
    Always
    Each day I have lived
    Every day i Will live
    Since the first second and after the last
    My passion for Life comes from Love
    Love is my

  24. Annie says:

    A friend saw your blog, and asked WHAT is spiritual partnership, so that you speak of the benefits of it.
    So I think it is efficient to put this link:
    it explains what is spiritual partnership, who are the spiritual partners..
    http://www.theworkbook.org/Spiritual%20Partnership.htm

    Love and Gratitude
    Annie

  25. Shine says:

    Thanks Paulo for sharing such a nice article. You really give me hope and smile to keep walking. Thank you so much. Love Avantika

  26. Annie says:

    ‘you cannot love one thing or person more than another ‘
    Yes!!
    I stopped saying ‘ilove you very much’ anymore.. The quantity implies that another U love less and smoother more..
    Saying ‘i love you’ says it all..

    Love and gratitude
    Annie

    1. Annie says:

      Edit: not smoother..i wonder how my phone came up with that.
      Meant another,of course..:D

  27. Olta Canka says:

    VERY IMPORTANT: distinguishing passion coming from fear from passion coming from love.
    It makes a big difference in every step you make in your life.

    :)

  28. eleonora says:

    proviene dall’amore…si dall’AMORE

  29. mita says:

    sir, Nice post, I came to now about the fear part and loving part of our soul. Obviously you know about HIGGS BOSON existence in quantum physics either it is called God particle. in quantum physics some experiment in same situation get solved but some do not.WHY? No body can explain.So what ever will be happen no body can predict, Whatever predicted any time it can be changed.
    Thank you.

  30. Belmusashi says:

    Master Paulo Coelho,
    I do respect you and your spiritual ability of bringing all this knowledge from the bottom of your soul.
    I just finish reading the “Benefits of spiritual partnership” and, I could not let it go withou saying a word of appreciation to what you wrote: IT IS VERY SPIRITUAL……. Please keep writing and never stop we need you.
    Regards,
    Belmusashi

  31. Thankyou,
    gardening for the soul. Fragrance. Home.
    Love,
    Jane

  32. Ronak Baldha says:

    Refreshing! Most would think of this post as something that can help only the troubled but it helps to go from good to better, not from bad to good!